Deck 25: Believing in Yourself: Be Assertive

Question 1

Which of the following problems could you probably get help with at your college if you made a request to the proper person?

A) academic problems
B) money problems
C) health problems
D) problems deciding on a career
E) all of the above

Answer 1

E

Question 2

Victims who ____ are placing themselves above others.They protect themselves from wounds of disappointment and failure by making others responsible for their problems.

A) blame
B) level
C) placate

Answer 2

A

Question 3

Victims who ____ are placing themselves below others.They protect themselves from the sting of criticism and rejection by saying whatever they think will gain approval.

A) blame
B) level
C) placate

Answer 3

C

Question 4

Creators who ____ (a term used by family therapist Virginia Satir)are telling the truth as they see it.

A) blame
B) level
C) placate

Question 5

The DAPPS rule,which we use to remember the qualities of an effective goal,can also be used to remember the qualities of an effective request.The letters in DAPPS stand for Dated,Achievable,Personal,Positive,and ____________________.