Question 1

Which kind of love is made up of equal portions of intimacy, passion, and commitment?&#10;A) consummate love&#10;B) romantic love&#10;C) companionate love&#10;D) empty love

Accepted Answer

Consummate love is characterized by having equal portions of intimacy, passion, and commitment. It is considered the ideal type of love, as all three components are present in a balanced and satisfying way. Romantic love is typically associated with high levels of passion and intimacy, but not necessarily commitment. Companionate love is high in intimacy and commitment, but lacks passion. Empty love is characterized by commitment without intimacy or passion.

Question 2

Which of the statements correctly distinguishes affection from intimacy?&#10;A) Affection involves intensely positive feelings, whereas intimacy involves intentions to remain in a relationship.&#10;B) Affection involves intensely positive feelings, whereas intimacy involves closeness and connection.&#10;C) Affection involves closeness and connection, whereas intimacy involves intensely positive feelings.&#10;D) Affection involves intentions to remain in a relationship, whereas intimacy involves intensely positive feelings.

Accepted Answer

Affection involves feelings of fondness or liking towards someone, while intimacy is a deeper emotional connection that involves sharing emotions, thoughts, and experiences with another person. Affection may be present in superficial relationships, whereas intimacy is typically only found in close, meaningful connections. Therefore, choice B correctly distinguishes between the two concepts.

Question 3

Which component of intimacy refers to the feeling that a relationship partner will keep us safe and protest us from harm?&#10;A) Closeness&#10;B) Trust&#10;C) Affection&#10;D) Mutuality

Accepted Answer

Trust is the component of intimacy that refers to the feeling that a relationship partner will keep us safe and protect us from harm. Trust involves a belief that our partner will not intentionally inflict harm upon us and also has our best interests at heart. While all of the other components (closeness, affection, and mutuality) are important in building and maintaining intimacy, trust is specifically related to feelings of safety and protection.

Question 4

Which kind of love is made up of lots of commitment, but relatively little intimacy and passion?&#10;A) consummate love&#10;B) romantic love&#10;C) companionate love&#10;D) empty love

Accepted Answer

Empty love is characterized by a high level of commitment but lacks intimacy and passion.

Question 5

Which style of loving enjoys the thrill of the chase, flirting, playing &#34;hard-to-get,&#34; and the feeling of falling in love?&#10;A) eros&#10;B) mania&#10;C) storge&#10;D) ludus

Accepted Answer

Ludus is characterized by treating love as a game, enjoying the chase, and often engaging in flirting and playing "hard-to-get." This style focuses on the excitement and fun of new love rather than deep emotional connection.

Question 6

Which style of loving combines eros and storge to form a compassionate and selfless kind of love?&#10;A) agape&#10;B) mania&#10;C) pragma&#10;D) ludus

Accepted Answer

Agape is the style of love that combines eros (passionate love) and storge (familial love) to create a selfless and compassionate kind of love. It is often associated with a desire to help others and a willingness to sacrifice one's own needs and desires for the benefit of others. Agape love is frequently seen as a characteristic of healthy, long-lasting relationships, as it allows individuals to be empathetic and understanding towards their partners even during difficult times.

Question 7

Monica and Chandler were good friends for many years before entering into a romantic relationship together. Their love grew slowly, but steadily over countless conversations and shared experiences. What kind of love style do Monica and Chandler have since their love developed gradually from friendship?

A) eros
B) mania
C) storge
D) ludus

Accepted Answer

Monica and Chandler's love style is storge, which is characterized by a gradual and friendship-based development of love. Eros is an intense and passionate love that is often based on physical attraction, which is not necessarily the case for Monica and Chandler. Mania is an obsessive and possessive love, which is not a characteristic of their relationship. Ludus is a playful and casual love, which is also not applicable to Monica and Chandler's relationship.

Question 8

What is the difference between strategic relational maintenance and routine relational maintenance?&#10;A) Strategic maintenance is unintentional, routine maintenance is intentional.&#10;B) Strategic maintenance is intentional, routine maintenance is unintentional.&#10;C) Strategic maintenance improves relationships, routine maintenance undermines relationships.&#10;D) Strategic maintenance undermines relationships, routine maintenance improves relationships.

Accepted Answer

Strategic relational maintenance is intentional, planned efforts to maintain or improve a relationship, often in response to a specific situation or event. Routine relational maintenance, on the other hand, refers to ongoing, habitual behaviors that maintain a relationship over time (e.g. saying "I love you" every day, checking in with each other regularly). Therefore, option B is the correct answer as it correctly defines the difference between the two types of maintenance.

Question 9

The clash between Robert's desire to him and Karen to freely disclose personal information to one another, and Karen's desire to keep some information to herself, illustrates which dialectical tension in their relationship?

A) connection vs. autonomy
B) openness vs. privacy
C) novelty vs. predictability
D) congruence vs. incongruence

Accepted Answer

The dialectical tension between Robert's desire for openness and Karen's desire for privacy is a clear illustration of the tension between openness and privacy.

Question 10

When romantic relationship partners feel tension about spending time alone together and spending time together with their friends, which relational dialectic are they experiencing?&#10;A) An external tension between autonomy and connection.&#10;B) An internal tension between autonomy and connection.&#10;C) An external tension between novelty and predictability.&#10;D) An internal tension between novelty and predictability.

Accepted Answer

An external tension between autonomy and connection occurs when romantic relationship partners feel tension about spending time alone together and spending time together with their friends.

Question 11

Rafael and Silvio have been together for two years and are getting married this summer. Silvio is having second thoughts, though, because their relationship has become routine and stale. According to relational dialectics theory, which relational dialectic best describes what Silvio is experiencing?

A) connection vs. autonomy
B) openness vs. privacy
C) novelty vs. predictability
D) congruence vs. incongruence

Accepted Answer

The answer of Rafael and Silvio have been together for...

Question 12

Which of the following strategies for coping with relational dialectics involves finding ways to respond to both sides of a dialectical tension simultaneously?&#10;A) segmentation&#10;B) spiraling alteration&#10;C) integration&#10;D) balance

Accepted Answer

The answer of Which of the following strategies for coping...

Question 13

Kayla and Isabel are experiencing tension in their relationship over wanting to spend time together, but also cultivate their independence. To deal with this, they decide to designate Saturdays as "date night" and Sundays as "self care day." What strategy for coping with relational dialectics are they using by designating specific times to pursue each side of the dialectic?

A) segmentation
B) spiraling alteration
C) integration
D) balance

Accepted Answer

The answer of Kayla and Isabel are experiencing tension in...

Question 14

Donnie desperately wants to be in a romantic relationship. He signed up for a dating app, but he has been having trouble getting to the point of meeting anyone offline because he is doubtful that anyone could ever really care about him. What is Donnie's attachment style?

A) secure
B) dismissing
C) preoccupied
D) fearful

Accepted Answer

The answer of Donnie desperately wants to be in a...

Question 15

Which attachment style is characterized by a positive view of the self, but a negative view of others?&#10;A) secure&#10;B) dismissing&#10;C) preoccupied&#10;D) fearful

Accepted Answer

The answer of Which attachment style is characterized by a...

Question 16

Which of the following is NOT a belief that is embodied by romantic love?&#10;A) love will find a way&#10;B) you can build a loving relationship with just about anyone&#10;C) relationship perfection is possible&#10;D) it is possible to experience love at first sight

Accepted Answer

The answer of Which of the following is NOT a...

Deck 10: Intimacy and Interpersonal Communication