Deck 6: Chosen Relationships and the Roots of Mature Love

Question 1

Companionate love is coming together of all three elements of Sternberg's triangle of love. Passion is high and so is integrity.

Answer 1

False

Question 2

In your text, your author was very clear that Muslim religion demands that marriages be primarily 'consummate' in nature.

Answer 2

False

Question 3

The way we date and mate around the world has changed dramatically in the last 100 years.

Answer 3

True

Question 4

About one-half of cohabiting unions break up after a year or less T or F- 90% of 12^th grade boys report having had sexual intercourse.

Question 5

90% of 12^th grade boys report having had sexual intercourse.

Question 6

According to your text, which of following is generally characteristic of marriage in Muslim culture:

A) Supervision
B) Personal choice
C) Appealing to God for confirmation of choice
D) Self-initiated courtship as long as it is approved of God.

Question 7

Muslim men and women:

A) marry out of love and devotion to God
B) are expected to marry
C) are expected to marry late in life

Question 8

In Muslim culture:

A) it is unthinkable (traditionally) for a man and woman to be alone before marriage
B) it is expected that a man and woman would spend time together alone,
C) c. but only as they seek the confirmation from God that they should marry.
D) it is expected that relationship contracts should be first developed by the couple in private and then they would bring their petition to marry before their family.
E) it is unthinkable for a man to marry too young.

Question 9

The FIMS system referred to in your text is short for:

A) family-individual-mate-selection process
B) financial-involvement-mate-selection process
C) family-involved-mate-selection process
D) friend-individual-mate-selection process

Question 10

A "matchmaker" is a person who:

A) makes and sells aromatic candles that are supposed to create a romantic mood.
B) helps families resolve differences in marital processes-much like a therapist in Western culture.
C) is a voice of warning to families whose children are 'matching' to early
D) helps families find a suitable marriage partner.

Question 11

Western culture has drifted more and more toward:

A) Love based marriage selection
B) Love based marriage connection with a heavy dose of parent approval
C) c. A system within which the couple has the final say about marriage and partnership
D) A system with which most parents see their role as helping their children find a worthy partner
E) A & C.
F) A, C, &, D

Question 12

What are the three elements of Sternberg's triangle theory of love?

A) Commitment- Passion-Intimacy
B) Commitment- Protection-Intimacy
C) Commitment-Passion- Integrity
D) Congruence-Passion-Intimacy

Question 13

Romantic love is composed of:

A) Congruence- Intimacy
B) Commitment-Passion
C) Integrity-Passion
D) Intimacy-Passion

Question 14

According to you text, consummate love is composed of

A) Congruence-Passion- Intimacy
B) Commitment-Passion-Intimacy
C) Commitment-Protection-Intimacy
D) Integrity-Passion

Question 15

Match the following
-consummate love

A) dissolution is the purview of the couple
B) relies on love based connection
C) relies on family direction
D) couples have a deep sense of camaraderie

Question 16

Match the following
-romantic love

A) dissolution is the purview of the couple
B) relies on love based connection
C) relies on family direction
D) couples have a deep sense of camaraderie

Question 17

Match the following
-LBMS

A) dissolution is the purview of the couple
B) relies on love based connection
C) relies on family direction
D) couples have a deep sense of camaraderie

Question 18

Match the following
-FIMS

A) dissolution is the purview of the couple
B) relies on love based connection
C) relies on family direction
D) couples have a deep sense of camaraderie