Deck 12: Being with Others

Question 1

Cassidy is a typical woman who works in an office and likes to play handball. Who is most likely to be her friend?

A) Amy, who also likes to play handball
B) Erika, who works in the same office
C) Lynda, who is someone Cassidy can confide in
D) Jessica, who likes to party

Answer 1

C

Question 2

Bobby and Julie have started to date exclusively. Bobby has mostly male friends, but Julie has a couple of male friends who are important to her. Bobby gets jealous whenever Julie spends time with her male friends, however. What is Bobby experiencing?

A) anger
B) infatuation
C) passion
D) hatred

Answer 2

B

Question 3

The phrase "'til death do you part" is often said during marriage services. What does this phrase illustrate?

A) passion
B) romantic love
C) commitment
D) consummate love

Answer 3

C

Question 4

How could Gene's relationship with Peggy reflect the communal component of adult friendship?

A) He could view her quirky personality as a source of amusement.
B) He could support her interest in sky diving by going along with her on a jump.
C) He could disclose his love for her.
D) He could indicate loyalty by defending her even though she is wrong.

Question 5

Jody and Karen have been friends since college. They are able to share their hopes and dreams and disappointments quite openly with each other, and their friendship is based upon loyalty and trust. Which dimension of friendship does Jody and Karen's relationship illustrate?

A) affective dimension
B) contextual dimension
C) shared dimension
D) sociability dimension

Question 6

While Victor and Nicole have very strong sexual feelings for each other, they have little interest in intimacy or commitment. What type of relationship do they have?

A) infatuation
B) friendship
C) consummate love
D) companionate love

Question 7

Stan and Roy have been friends for many years. In the past few months, however, they seem to have less in common and Roy has been thinking more about hanging out with a potential new friend. Which stage of friendship development do Stan and Roy appear to be in?

A) build-up
B) continuation
C) acquaintanceship
D) deterioration

Question 8

What two elements are present in most friendships?

A) They are based on choice and high reciprocity.
B) They are based on choice and low reciprocity.
C) They are based on no choice and high reciprocity.
D) They are based on no choice and low reciprocity.

Question 9

Why is the strong intimate sharing component that characterizes most female friendships not as common in male friendships?

A) because females are more comfortable with their sexuality
B) because females are more comfortable with their avoidance of feelings
C) because females are more comfortable with logic and facts
D) because females are more comfortable with their vulnerability

Question 10

At what stage of life do people tend to have the most acquaintances/friends?

A) adolescence
B) young adulthood
C) middle adulthood
D) late adulthood

Question 11

Frankie is an introvert and is very shy. What type of friendship is Frankie most likely to pursue?

A) a face-to-face relationship
B) an online relationship
C) a telephone relationship
D) a written/pen pal-type relationship

Question 12

How does a friendship differ from a love relationship?

A) Friendships are more emotionally intense than a love relationship.
B) Friendships are not as lasting as a love relationship.
C) Friendships involve less sexual energy than a love relationship.
D) Friendships are more time consuming than a love relationship.

Question 13

When discussing his new girlfriend, Mickey says, "I can tell her everything about myself." What does Mickey clearly feel toward his girlfriend?

A) commitment
B) passion
C) infatuation
D) intimacy

Question 14

Juliet can feel it! She wants Rick physically, and she wants him badly! What is Juliet most likely experiencing?

A) intimacy
B) passion
C) commitment
D) companionate love

Question 15

According to the assortative mating theory, what is initial mate selection based primarily on?

A) similarity
B) instincts
C) random factors
D) love

Question 16

According to Flynn (2007), how does one define the quality of one's friendships?

A) by the material benefits obtained
B) by the satisfaction derived from the relationship
C) by the hope derived from the relationship
D) by the amount of time spent with one another

Question 17

James and Kirby are two buddies who love to hang out together. In the winter, they belong to an organized hockey league, and they play on the same team, and in the summer, their two families go camping together. What theme underlies the friendship of James and Kirby?

A) contextual
B) affective
C) sociability
D) compatibility

Question 18

What do men's friendship activities most often involve?

A) "friendly" competition
B) confiding
C) intimacy
D) self-disclosure

Question 19

Sanford's friendships tend to be based on self-disclosure and intimacy. Which dimension of friendship do these elements exemplify?

A) contextual dimension
B) sociability dimension
C) shared dimension
D) affective dimension

Question 20

What do we call the initial stage in friendship development?

A) build-up
B) inquiry
C) acquaintanceship
D) colleague

Question 21

What do we call a relationship in which one individual becomes violent or aggressive towards the other?

A) an abusive relationship
B) a consummate relationship
C) a reciprocal relationship
D) a homogamous relationship

Question 22

According to research by Buss and colleagues, which of the following men looking for a prospective mate would be most concerned about the woman's cooking competence and social status?

A) a Chinese man
B) an Italian man
C) a Swedish man
D) a British man

Question 23

According to Kalmijn and Flap (2001), what tends to promote strong homogamy in relationships?

A) meeting other members of one's family
B) living in the same neighbourhood
C) meeting in school
D) seeking a mate with different characteristics than yourself

Question 24

Which of the following methods is currently quite popular for young adults to find a date?

A) online dating
B) speed dating
C) blind dating
D) arranged dating by parents

Question 25

Research on the biology of physical attraction suggests that neurochemicals related to certain substances underlie the feeling of exhilaration that often is experienced when you fall in love. What are those substances?

A) barbiturates
B) hallucinogens
C) amphetamines
D) narcotics

Question 26

Which of the following hormones is known as "the cuddle hormone?"

A) oxytocin
B) epinephrine
C) estrogen
D) testosterone

Question 27

According to research, when choosing a partner, Carlita, who is Spanish, will choose which one of the following individuals?

A) Carlos, who is a millionaire
B) Pedro, who has a pleasing disposition
C) Antonio, who has a good education
D) Ricardo, who is physically attractive

Question 28

In their cross-cultural study of mate selection, Buss and colleagues found that a particular characteristic showed the most variation as to whether it was important to mate selection? What is that characteristic?

A) intelligence
B) chastity
C) physical attractiveness
D) social status

Question 29

O'Leary (1993) presents a continuum of aggressive behaviour in abusive relationships anchored by two elements, one at each end of the continuum. What are the two elements?

A) physical aggression and verbal aggression
B) severe aggression and murder
C) verbal aggression and murder
D) physical aggression and murder

Question 30

As a child, Kobe had an avoidant relationship with both his mother and father. How will this type of relationship with his parents most likely affect his relationships as an adult?

A) He is likely to have a large number of same-sex friends.
B) He is likely to have a large number of opposite-sex friends.
C) He is likely to have a few, but extremely close, friendships.
D) He is likely to have trouble forming friendships.

Question 31

When deciding on a potential mate, Fletcher says, "I just need to find someone a lot like me." Which theory does this statement best fit with?

A) socio-cultural theory
B) assortative mating theory
C) crystallization theory
D) blended family theory

Question 32

Jerry and Edie broke up because he was Jewish and she was Lutheran. Which of the following characteristics of a desirable mate best explains the reason for their break-up?

A) social refinement
B) intelligence
C) social status
D) cultural values

Question 33

Which attachment style in childhood is predictive of closer relationships in adulthood?

A) secure attachment style
B) avoidant attachment style
C) resistant attachment style
D) ambivalent attachment style

Question 34

According to O'Leary's (1993) model, which of the following would have the largest number of potential underlying causes?

A) verbal aggression
B) physical aggression
C) severe aggression
D) financial aggression

Question 35

According to Canadian research on violence in intimate relationships, what were men were more likely than women to report?

A) being choked, beaten, or assaulted
B) being beaten or burned
C) being slapped, kicked, or bitten
D) being threatened with a knife or gun

Question 36

Which of the following characteristics is important in a sporadic relationship?

A) intellect
B) maturity
C) physical attractiveness
D) wealth

Question 37

When discussing his relationship with his wife, Travis says, "I have this very strong sense of commitment and tranquility." Researchers have suggested that the neurophysiological basis of this feeling may be due to brain chemicals related to a certain substance. What is that substance?

A) cocaine
B) morphine
C) alcohol
D) cannabis

Question 38

Arnold is a very ambitious and highly intelligent young man. As such, where is he most likely to be viewed as an excellent potential mate?

A) in every culture in the world
B) in Western cultures
C) in some cultures, but not in other cultures
D) in Middle-Eastern cultures

Question 39

Pria hails from a country in which loyalty to one's family and arranged marriages are the norm. From which country does Pria come?

A) India
B) Sri-Lanka
C) Indonesia
D) the Philippines

Question 40

What is the defining belief among individuals experiencing "battered women's syndrome?"

A) The abuse is tied to a sense of personal high self-esteem.
B) The abuse is not harmful to them.
C) The abuser is acting out of unconditional love.
D) They are powerless to get away from the abuse.

Question 41

Nalah comes from an Arabic country with a patriarchal society that tolerates abuse of women. Which of the following forms of violence is Nalah likely to suffer if she "misbehaves?"

A) In Arab countries, Nalah's "misbehaviour" is often dealt with in the form of honour killings.
B) Arab Americans do not recognize physical aggression as a form of domestic violence.
C) In Arab countries, abused women have the legal right to kill abusive husbands without fear of legal reprisal.
D) While it is considered a form of abuse in the United States, South Asian immigrants view complete social isolation of a spouse as an honour.

Question 42

What approximate percentage of Swedish couples who choose cohabitation are not legally married?

A) 7%
B) 12%
C) 19%
D) 25%

Question 43

Which of the following is a reason typically given for cohabiting?

A) one doesn't like living alone
B) awaiting a divorce before remarriage
C) convenience or sexual accessibility
D) a previous bad experience with marriage

Question 44

In the last decade of the 20th century, what happened to the number of cohabiting couples in Canada?

A) It decreased significantly.
B) It decreased slightly.
C) It increased slightly.
D) It increased significantly.

Question 45

Which of the following types of violence is prevalent in China?

A) psychological abuse
B) social isolation
C) financial abuse
D) intimate partner violence

Question 46

Ken and Bethany are sexually active singles who are discussing the idea of moving in together. What are they contemplating?

A) forming an extended family
B) homogamy
C) cohabitation
D) assortative mating

Question 47

According to the text, why do many Canadian singles marry later on in life?

A) because they enjoy being financially independent
B) because they want to establish their careers
C) because they are not ready for or don't want children
D) because marriage is an unpopular concept among young people

Question 48

Which of the following is a common reason for abuse among gay and lesbian couples?

A) jealousy
B) poor self-esteem
C) abuse as a child
D) alcohol abuse

Question 49

Which of the following is considered to be "a growing hallmark of emerging adulthood?"

A) cohabitation
B) arranged marriages
C) assortative mating
D) homogamy

Question 50

Ole and Lena are a cohabiting couple in Sweden while John and Diane are a cohabiting couple in Canada. What would cross-cultural research most likely predict?

A) Ole and Lena will only marry if they have children.
B) Ole and Lena will believe that they are living in sin.
C) John and Diane will be unlikely to ever marry.
D) John and Diane will be at significantly less risk for divorce should they marry.

Question 51

By definition, what must happen in patriarchal terrorism?

A) It must be initiated by a man.
B) It must result in death or severe physical injury.
C) It must result in battered woman syndrome.
D) It must lead to divorce or separation.

Question 52

What happens to the causes of aggressive behaviour as the level of aggressive behaviour increases?

A) The causes become more complex.
B) The causes become simpler.
C) The causes become more obvious.
D) The causes become more external.

Question 53

Pauline is a typical North American woman cohabiting with her boyfriend, Bill. If Pauline is typical of women who cohabit, which of the following beliefs does she hold?

A) She cites convenience as her primary factor for cohabitation.
B) She does not expect Bill to make a serious commitment.
C) She was more open to cohabiting than Bill.
D) She views cohabitation as a permanent situation.

Question 54

Married couple Niles and Millie each occasionally become physically aggressive toward each other. Though both believe that they could leave the relationship, they remain married. What does this couple's relationship illustrate?

A) battered wife syndrome
B) patriarchal terrorism
C) matriarchal terrorism
D) partner violence

Question 55

Al and Penny are a typical North American couple who have cohabitated for many years. If they later marry each other, how are they most likely to differ from other married couples that did not cohabitate?

A) They are likely less at-risk for divorce.
B) They are likely wealthier.
C) They are likely more religious.
D) They are likely less happy.

Question 56

Why do fewer men remain unmarried throughout adulthood?

A) because men can select from a larger age range of unmarried women when they do choose to marry
B) because only outdated cultural practices dictate that men should be married
C) because men enjoy being married when they are older, not when they are young
D) because men don't want to marry until they find their soul mates

Question 57

How has the median age of first marriage in Canada changed from 1970 to 2000?

A) It has dropped by about 4 years.
B) It has remained constant.
C) It has risen by about 5 years.
D) It has risen by about 8 years.

Question 58

How do relationships between gay and lesbians versus heterosexuals differ?

A) Homosexual couples are more likely to vary in age, race, and education.
B) Lesbian couples tend to be significantly less egalitarian.
C) Heterosexual couples are more likely to share household chore responsibilities.
D) Heterosexual couples are more likely to argue over social and political issues.

Question 59

In Canada, approximately what percentage of young adults in their 20s is unmarried?

A) 15% of females and 75% of males
B) 20% of females and 45% of males
C) 40% of females and 74% of males
D) 64% of females and 75% of males

Question 60

Based on statistics, which pair would you expect to have had the most past short-term relationships?

A) William and Kenny, who are a gay male couple
B) Debbie and Alan, who are a heterosexual couple
C) Claire and Brooke, who are a lesbian couple
D) Joan and Chris, who are a bisexual couple

Question 61

What is the typical pattern of marital satisfaction from honeymoon through retirement?

A) high to low to high
B) high to medium to low
C) medium to high to low
D) low to medium to high

Question 62

What happens to marital satisfaction when there are children involved?

A) Couples with children show a decline in marital satisfaction while those without children show an increase.
B) Couples who are child-free due to infertility tend to have high levels of marital satisfaction.
C) Most couples tend to show little increased conflict due to the birth of a child.
D) The birth of a child is usually viewed as a positive event, even though it is associated with a decrease in marital satisfaction.

Question 63

Floyd and Cassandra have been married for 24 years and are quite comfortable and happy in their marriage, even though they do things apart and have dissimilar interests. Which of the following terms describes their marriage?

A) marital adjustment
B) marital satisfaction
C) marital discord
D) marital fulfillment

Question 64

Wife and husband Marina and Kevin have two children, one boy and one girl. What are they together?

A) an empty-nest family
B) an extended family
C) a stepfamily
D) a nuclear family

Question 65

Which is the most common form of family in Western societies?

A) empty-nest family
B) extended family
C) stepfamily
D) nuclear family

Question 66

Vaughn and Helen are both 55 and have been married for 20 years. However, they have grown apart, and essentially live as housemates. What type of relationship do they have?

A) They are emotionally ambivalent.
B) They are empty nested.
C) They are in part-time cohabitation.
D) They are in a substitute marriage.

Question 67

Which determinant category of the childbearing decision do financial issues fit best into?

A) the feminine determinant
B) the marriage determinant
C) the lifestyle determinant
D) the career determinant

Question 68

Katie and Robin are seeing a marriage counsellor, Dr. McMurray, to ask her advice about how to save their relationship. Dr. McMurray tells them that the reason they are having trouble is because "Neither of you perceive that you are getting as much out of the relationship as you are putting into it." What does this statement indicate that Dr. McMurray is a proponent of?

A) homogamy
B) cohabitation
C) exchange theory
D) the family life cycle

Question 69

Which of the following phrases would best complete the analogy, "Concerning family types, nuclear is to extended as?"

A) biological parent is to adoptive parent
B) two generations is to three or more generations
C) no children is to having children
D) cohabitation is to marriage

Question 70

Which of the following constitutes an "extended family?"

A) two parents and one child
B) two parents and six children
C) two parents, one child, and one grandfather
D) two cohabitating (but not married) adults

Question 71

How are homogamy and marital satisfaction related?

A) They are unrelated.
B) They are positively related.
C) They are inversely related.
D) They are negatively related.

Question 72

Which couple is probably the happiest?

A) Henry and Anne, who have just had their first baby
B) Jack and Alice, who have two adolescent children
C) Harold and Emily, whose children have just left home
D) Greg and Janine, who have just retired

Question 73

Who are more likely to identify problems early in a marriage?

A) couples who engage in mutual activities
B) women, who tend to be more sensitive about such issues
C) rich couples, who spend more on "things" than on each other
D) highly educated men who are workaholics

Question 74

According to exchange theory, what is the key factor in determining whether an exchange will increase marital satisfaction?

A) the length of time the individuals have been married
B) the age of the participants
C) the potential monetary cost of the exchange
D) the perceived equity of the exchange

Question 75

When discussing the possibility of having children, Phyllis says, "I really think a lot about how my mother and I got along." What type of determinant of the childbearing decision does her remark illustrate?

A) a feminine intrapsychic determinant
B) a marriage determinant
C) a lifestyle determinant
D) a career determinant

Question 76

According to exchange theory, which couple would be most satisfied?

A) Megan, the primary breadwinner, and Hunter, a stay-at-home father
B) Ashley and Brian, who have exchanged passionate love for fatuous love
C) Eliza and Adam, who decide to put off marriage until they both get jobs
D) Helen, who wants children, and Harley, who gives in to her demands

Question 77

Which older couple is most likely to be the most satisfied with their marriage?

A) Dudley and Karla, who confide in each other
B) Jim and Ann, who still have sex quite frequently
C) Barb and Mark, who have many health problems
D) Tim and Kathy, who still have children living at home with them

Question 78

Which of the following discussion topics, when talked about openly and honestly, can bring about bliss in a marriage?

A) financial issues
B) children
C) health issues
D) retirement

Question 79

Each of these women has just married for the first time. Who is most likely to get divorced?

A) Lucy, who is 17
B) Marie, who is 23
C) Ellen, who is 29
D) Laurie, who is 35

Question 80

Which couple exemplifies homogamy?

A) Fred and Ginny, who share similar political beliefs
B) Edward and Wanda, who date each other exclusively
C) Scott and Ellen, who share the same apartment
D) Jeffrey and Barney, who are a gay male couple