Deck 7: Intimate Relationships, Romantic Relationships, and Civil Communication

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Which of the following statements is not true of intimate relationships?

A) marital happiness is the most important predictor of happiness in life
B) cardiovascular disease is more often fatal in people with few close friends
C) having few intimate relationships dooms you to an unhealthy life
D) marital dissatisfaction is linked to depression
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Which of the following statements is not true of intimacy?

A) intimacy is the feeling of closeness between two people
B) intimacy is the defining characteristic of any close relationship
C) most of our relationships will not be intimate
D) intimate relationships always involve sexual activity
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When you can talk about your feelings without your partner feeling defensive, you are experiencing intimacy based on _____ qualities.

A) sexual
B) social
C) recreational
D) emotional
E) intellectual
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When you have a number of friends in common with your partner, you are experiencing intimacy based _____ qualities.

A) sexual
B) social
C) recreational
D) emotional
E) intellectual
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Which is not a component in the "triangle of love" that constitutes romantic relationships?

A) sex
B) Passion
C) intimacy
D) commitment
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Which of the following statements is true of communication in intimate and romantic relationships?

A) satisfied couples report five times more positive interaction than negative
B) busy couples are able to engage in companionate talk easily
C) communication is more implicit when the relationship is in trouble
D) communication is more implicit at the beginning of the relationship
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Which of the following statements is not true of the effect of culture on romantic relationships?

A) relationships between people of different ethnic groups are similar to those between people of similar ethnic groups
B) intercultural relationships occur more as immigrants become accustomed to their new culture
C) parents of those who choose intercultural relationships support them because it helps their children become more acculturated
D) GLBT couples measure relationship success differently from heterosexuals
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Reasons for avoiding a workplace romance do not include

A) the potential for rumor and gossip
B) possible negative effects on productivity
C) possible negative effects on teamwork
D) using it as a means to get ahead
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Which of the following is an example of personal self-disclosure?

A) It's fun when we cook dinner together.
B) Cooking is the way I show I care about someone.
C) I've taken three cooking classes.
D) Cooking is a waste of time.
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Which of the following is an example of relational self-disclosure?

A) It's fun when we cook dinner together.
B) Cooking is the way I show I care about someone.
C) I've taken three cooking classes.
D) Cooking is a waste of time.
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_____ theory accounts for the way in which self-disclosure increases intimacy in relationships.

A) Social penetration
B) Self-disclosure
C) Attraction
D) Attribution
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Which is not a question you should ask when considering disclosing a disturbing secret to a relational partner?

A) Is the disclosure appropriate?
B) Will I feel okay if the other person doesn't disclose something equally risky?
C) Will it place a burden on the other person?
D) Will I feel better?
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Which of the following statements is most likely to be said during the experimenting stage of coming together?

A) I really like spending time with you.
B) Kim and Dave asked us to dinner on Saturday night.
C) I don't want to talk about that right now.
D) Are you a Coke or Pepsi kind of person?
E) I know you love action movies, but I don't. I'm going to read a book.
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Which of the following statements is most likely to be said during the circumscribing stage of coming apart?

A) I really like spending time with you.
B) Kim and Dave asked us to dinner on Saturday night.
C) I don't want to talk about that right now.
D) Are you a Coke or Pepsi kind of person?
E) I know you love action movies, but I don't. I'm going to read a book.
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Which of the following statements is most likely to be said during the integrating stage of coming together?

A) I really like spending time with you.
B) Kim and Dave asked us to dinner on Saturday night.
C) I don't want to talk about that right now.
D) Are you a Coke or Pepsi kind of person?
E) I know you love action movies, but I don't. I'm going to read a book.
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Which of the following statements is most likely to be said during the intensifying stage of coming together?

A) I really like spending time with you.
B) Kim and Dave asked us to dinner on Saturday night.
C) I don't want to talk about that right now.
D) Are you a Coke or Pepsi kind of person?
E) I know you love action movies, but I don't. I'm going to read a book.
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Which of the following statements is most likely to be said during the differentiating stage of coming apart?

A) I really like spending time with you.
B) Kim and Dave asked us to dinner on Saturday night.
C) I don't want to talk about that right now.
D) Are you a Coke or Pepsi kind of person?
E) I know you love action movies, but I don't. I'm going to read a book.
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Which of the following is most likely to be successful in initiating a conversation with someone in your class and convincing that person to have coffee with you?

A) God told me to ask you out.
B) Want to grab some coffee and talk about the assignment?
C) I liked what you said about Freud. Would you like to explore my id?
D) Hi there. I heard what you were saying about the reading. I was wondering if we could have coffee so I could hear more. You seem to really get it, and I'm still struggling a little.
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Which is not an effective relational maintenance strategy?

A) telling your partner that he or she should stop seeing a friend because that friend is creepy
B) expressing appreciation for your partner
C) asking your partner for advice about an important decision you have to make
D) helping your partner clean out his or her garage
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Which of the following is not true of the function of texting in helping to maintain an interpersonal relationship?

A) texts can reflect a positivity strategy between partners
B) the limited number of words makes it easy to express an idea
C) texts can reflect assurances between partners
D) texts reaffirm feelings of connectedness
Question
Which of the following would be the best way to terminate a relationship?

A) change your relationship status on Facebook
B) tell the other person that he or she will always be your favorite mistake
C) tell the other that you've enjoyed the time you've had together, but you need to move on
D) send yourself a gift and pretend it's from a new relational partner
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The desire to sometimes spend time by yourself rather than with your relational partner reflects the _____ dialectical tension.

A) affection/control
B) autonomy/connection
C) novelty/predictability
D) openness/closedness
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The desire to embrace new things in an ongoing relationship reflects the _____ dialectical tension.

A) affection/control
B) autonomy/connection
C) novelty/predictability
D) openness/closedness
Question
The desire to keep some things to yourself and not tell your relational partner reflects the _____ dialectical tension.

A) affection/control
B) autonomy/connection
C) novelty/predictability
D) openness/closedness
Question
Which statement is most indicative of the autonomy/connection dialectical tension?

A) You need to stop telling me what to do.
B) Do we always have to eat at the Chinese buffet?
C) I'm going to go shopping next door while you look at the new sports equipment.
D) I want to talk to you about this problem but I need some more time to process it on my own.
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Which statement is most indicative of the novelty/predictability dialectical tension?

A) You need to stop telling me what to do.
B) Do we always have to eat at the Chinese buffet?
C) I'm going to go shopping next door while you look at the new sports equipment.
D) I want to talk to you about this problem but I need some more time to process it on my own.
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Which statement is most indicative of the openness/closedness dialectical tension?

A) You need to stop telling me what to do.
B) Do we always have to eat at the Chinese buffet?
C) I'm going to go shopping next door while you look at the new sports equipment.
D) I want to talk to you about this problem but I need some more time to process it on my own.
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Giving up part of what you want when faced with a dialectical tension reflects the _____ strategy.

A) neutralization
B) selection
C) separation
D) reframing
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Ignoring or neglecting one end of a dialectical tension for a period of time reflects the _____ strategy.

A) neutralization
B) selection
C) separation
D) reframing
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Deciding when each end of a dialectical tension should have priority reflects the _____ strategy.

A) neutralization
B) selection
C) separation
D) reframing
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Finding ways to resolve dialectical tensions by not considering them threatening to a relationship reflects the _____ strategy.

A) Neutralization
B) selection
C) separation
D) reframing
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Which of the following statements reflects a critical disconfirming message or a response to one?

A) Are you listening to me?
B) Maybe my music isn't to your taste, but you eat stuff that smells so bad it makes me sick.
C) No one died and made you the king of anything.
D) I didn't realize I was marrying a drunk.
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Which of the following statements reflects a contemptuous disconfirming message or a response to one?

A) Are you listening to me?
B) Maybe my music isn't to your taste, but you eat stuff that smells so bad it makes me sick.
C) No one died and made you the king of anything.
D) I didn't realize I was marrying a drunk.
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Which of the following statements reflects a defensive disconfirming message or a response to one?

A) Are you listening to me?
B) Maybe my music isn't to your taste, but you eat stuff that smells so bad it makes me sick.
C) No one died and made you the king of anything.
D) I didn't realize I was marrying a drunk.
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Which of the following statements reflects a stonewalling disconfirming message or a response to one?

A) Are you listening to me?
B) Maybe my music isn't to your taste, but you eat stuff that smells so bad it makes me sick.
C) No one died and made you the king of anything.
D) I didn't realize I was marrying a drunk.
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People with intimate relationships are generally happier than people without them.
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Spending time with others and having mutual friends is part of the recreational quality of intimacy.
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Intimacy that grows from shared activities is just as valid as intimacy that grows from shared disclosure.
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Control is one of the three components in the "triangle of love."
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Relationships between partners from different ethnic groups are similar to those where the partners are from the same ethnic group.
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"Friends with benefits" is a common occurrence on college campuses.
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Communication is more implicit at the beginning of romantic relationships and more explicit as the relationship develops.
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Self-disclosure is deliberate.
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The use of artifacts (, tattoos, jewelry, or clothing) is a form of self-disclosure.
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Self-disclosure always leads to intimacy.
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We can converse with someone on a wide breadth of topics without necessarily self-disclosing.
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Social penetration theory assumes that we disclosure more and more as a relationship goes on.
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Self-disclosure is a large part of the communication between intimate partners.
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The "staircase model" of relational development assumes that relationships develop and deteriorate in a linear fashion.
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Pickup lines and canned come-ons are effective in initiating relationships with others.
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Acting strategically to maintain your relationships is likely to backfire.
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It is more difficult to start a relationship online than face-to-face.
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Texting is an effective way to maintain romantic relationships.
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Most people communicate termination talk in a forthright manner.
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Giving up part of what you want constitutes the neutralization strategy for dealing with relational dialectics.
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Emphasizing one end of the dialectical tension and ignoring the other constitutes the separation strategy for dealing with relational dialectics.
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Men often perceive communication as work.
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We use the selection strategy when we stop seeing relational dialectics as threatening.
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Defensiveness is a type of disconfirming behavior.
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Researchers can predict whether a couple will divorce based on the way they communicate with one another.
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Compare and contrast intimate versus romantic relationships.
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Why is it important to study intimate relationships?
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Explain why a workplace romance is probably a bad idea.
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How does communication in a romantic relationship change over time?
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What is the difference between self-disclosure and social penetration?
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Give examples that demonstrate your understanding of breadth and depth in self-disclosure.
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What are some things we should ask ourselves before disclosing something risky to a relational partner?
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What is the "staircase model" of relationship development?
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What are the five strategies we can use to maintain relationships? Give an example of each one.
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What are the three dialectical tensions that operate in relationships? Provide examples that illustrate each tension.
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What are four strategies relational partners can use to manage dialectical tensions? Provide examples of each strategy.
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What is disconfirming communication, and why is it uncivil?
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Explain how communication influences the development of intimate and romantic relationships. Provide an example to illustrate your understanding.
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Describe "staircase model" of relational development. Provide an example to illustrate your understanding.
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What are the three dialectical tensions that operate in a relationship? How do we manage them? Provide an example to illustrate your understanding.
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Deck 7: Intimate Relationships, Romantic Relationships, and Civil Communication
1
Which of the following statements is not true of intimate relationships?

A) marital happiness is the most important predictor of happiness in life
B) cardiovascular disease is more often fatal in people with few close friends
C) having few intimate relationships dooms you to an unhealthy life
D) marital dissatisfaction is linked to depression
C
2
Which of the following statements is not true of intimacy?

A) intimacy is the feeling of closeness between two people
B) intimacy is the defining characteristic of any close relationship
C) most of our relationships will not be intimate
D) intimate relationships always involve sexual activity
D
3
When you can talk about your feelings without your partner feeling defensive, you are experiencing intimacy based on _____ qualities.

A) sexual
B) social
C) recreational
D) emotional
E) intellectual
D
4
When you have a number of friends in common with your partner, you are experiencing intimacy based _____ qualities.

A) sexual
B) social
C) recreational
D) emotional
E) intellectual
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5
Which is not a component in the "triangle of love" that constitutes romantic relationships?

A) sex
B) Passion
C) intimacy
D) commitment
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6
Which of the following statements is true of communication in intimate and romantic relationships?

A) satisfied couples report five times more positive interaction than negative
B) busy couples are able to engage in companionate talk easily
C) communication is more implicit when the relationship is in trouble
D) communication is more implicit at the beginning of the relationship
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7
Which of the following statements is not true of the effect of culture on romantic relationships?

A) relationships between people of different ethnic groups are similar to those between people of similar ethnic groups
B) intercultural relationships occur more as immigrants become accustomed to their new culture
C) parents of those who choose intercultural relationships support them because it helps their children become more acculturated
D) GLBT couples measure relationship success differently from heterosexuals
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8
Reasons for avoiding a workplace romance do not include

A) the potential for rumor and gossip
B) possible negative effects on productivity
C) possible negative effects on teamwork
D) using it as a means to get ahead
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9
Which of the following is an example of personal self-disclosure?

A) It's fun when we cook dinner together.
B) Cooking is the way I show I care about someone.
C) I've taken three cooking classes.
D) Cooking is a waste of time.
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10
Which of the following is an example of relational self-disclosure?

A) It's fun when we cook dinner together.
B) Cooking is the way I show I care about someone.
C) I've taken three cooking classes.
D) Cooking is a waste of time.
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11
_____ theory accounts for the way in which self-disclosure increases intimacy in relationships.

A) Social penetration
B) Self-disclosure
C) Attraction
D) Attribution
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12
Which is not a question you should ask when considering disclosing a disturbing secret to a relational partner?

A) Is the disclosure appropriate?
B) Will I feel okay if the other person doesn't disclose something equally risky?
C) Will it place a burden on the other person?
D) Will I feel better?
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13
Which of the following statements is most likely to be said during the experimenting stage of coming together?

A) I really like spending time with you.
B) Kim and Dave asked us to dinner on Saturday night.
C) I don't want to talk about that right now.
D) Are you a Coke or Pepsi kind of person?
E) I know you love action movies, but I don't. I'm going to read a book.
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14
Which of the following statements is most likely to be said during the circumscribing stage of coming apart?

A) I really like spending time with you.
B) Kim and Dave asked us to dinner on Saturday night.
C) I don't want to talk about that right now.
D) Are you a Coke or Pepsi kind of person?
E) I know you love action movies, but I don't. I'm going to read a book.
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15
Which of the following statements is most likely to be said during the integrating stage of coming together?

A) I really like spending time with you.
B) Kim and Dave asked us to dinner on Saturday night.
C) I don't want to talk about that right now.
D) Are you a Coke or Pepsi kind of person?
E) I know you love action movies, but I don't. I'm going to read a book.
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16
Which of the following statements is most likely to be said during the intensifying stage of coming together?

A) I really like spending time with you.
B) Kim and Dave asked us to dinner on Saturday night.
C) I don't want to talk about that right now.
D) Are you a Coke or Pepsi kind of person?
E) I know you love action movies, but I don't. I'm going to read a book.
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Which of the following statements is most likely to be said during the differentiating stage of coming apart?

A) I really like spending time with you.
B) Kim and Dave asked us to dinner on Saturday night.
C) I don't want to talk about that right now.
D) Are you a Coke or Pepsi kind of person?
E) I know you love action movies, but I don't. I'm going to read a book.
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18
Which of the following is most likely to be successful in initiating a conversation with someone in your class and convincing that person to have coffee with you?

A) God told me to ask you out.
B) Want to grab some coffee and talk about the assignment?
C) I liked what you said about Freud. Would you like to explore my id?
D) Hi there. I heard what you were saying about the reading. I was wondering if we could have coffee so I could hear more. You seem to really get it, and I'm still struggling a little.
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19
Which is not an effective relational maintenance strategy?

A) telling your partner that he or she should stop seeing a friend because that friend is creepy
B) expressing appreciation for your partner
C) asking your partner for advice about an important decision you have to make
D) helping your partner clean out his or her garage
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20
Which of the following is not true of the function of texting in helping to maintain an interpersonal relationship?

A) texts can reflect a positivity strategy between partners
B) the limited number of words makes it easy to express an idea
C) texts can reflect assurances between partners
D) texts reaffirm feelings of connectedness
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21
Which of the following would be the best way to terminate a relationship?

A) change your relationship status on Facebook
B) tell the other person that he or she will always be your favorite mistake
C) tell the other that you've enjoyed the time you've had together, but you need to move on
D) send yourself a gift and pretend it's from a new relational partner
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22
The desire to sometimes spend time by yourself rather than with your relational partner reflects the _____ dialectical tension.

A) affection/control
B) autonomy/connection
C) novelty/predictability
D) openness/closedness
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23
The desire to embrace new things in an ongoing relationship reflects the _____ dialectical tension.

A) affection/control
B) autonomy/connection
C) novelty/predictability
D) openness/closedness
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24
The desire to keep some things to yourself and not tell your relational partner reflects the _____ dialectical tension.

A) affection/control
B) autonomy/connection
C) novelty/predictability
D) openness/closedness
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Which statement is most indicative of the autonomy/connection dialectical tension?

A) You need to stop telling me what to do.
B) Do we always have to eat at the Chinese buffet?
C) I'm going to go shopping next door while you look at the new sports equipment.
D) I want to talk to you about this problem but I need some more time to process it on my own.
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Which statement is most indicative of the novelty/predictability dialectical tension?

A) You need to stop telling me what to do.
B) Do we always have to eat at the Chinese buffet?
C) I'm going to go shopping next door while you look at the new sports equipment.
D) I want to talk to you about this problem but I need some more time to process it on my own.
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27
Which statement is most indicative of the openness/closedness dialectical tension?

A) You need to stop telling me what to do.
B) Do we always have to eat at the Chinese buffet?
C) I'm going to go shopping next door while you look at the new sports equipment.
D) I want to talk to you about this problem but I need some more time to process it on my own.
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28
Giving up part of what you want when faced with a dialectical tension reflects the _____ strategy.

A) neutralization
B) selection
C) separation
D) reframing
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29
Ignoring or neglecting one end of a dialectical tension for a period of time reflects the _____ strategy.

A) neutralization
B) selection
C) separation
D) reframing
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30
Deciding when each end of a dialectical tension should have priority reflects the _____ strategy.

A) neutralization
B) selection
C) separation
D) reframing
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31
Finding ways to resolve dialectical tensions by not considering them threatening to a relationship reflects the _____ strategy.

A) Neutralization
B) selection
C) separation
D) reframing
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32
Which of the following statements reflects a critical disconfirming message or a response to one?

A) Are you listening to me?
B) Maybe my music isn't to your taste, but you eat stuff that smells so bad it makes me sick.
C) No one died and made you the king of anything.
D) I didn't realize I was marrying a drunk.
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33
Which of the following statements reflects a contemptuous disconfirming message or a response to one?

A) Are you listening to me?
B) Maybe my music isn't to your taste, but you eat stuff that smells so bad it makes me sick.
C) No one died and made you the king of anything.
D) I didn't realize I was marrying a drunk.
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34
Which of the following statements reflects a defensive disconfirming message or a response to one?

A) Are you listening to me?
B) Maybe my music isn't to your taste, but you eat stuff that smells so bad it makes me sick.
C) No one died and made you the king of anything.
D) I didn't realize I was marrying a drunk.
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35
Which of the following statements reflects a stonewalling disconfirming message or a response to one?

A) Are you listening to me?
B) Maybe my music isn't to your taste, but you eat stuff that smells so bad it makes me sick.
C) No one died and made you the king of anything.
D) I didn't realize I was marrying a drunk.
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36
People with intimate relationships are generally happier than people without them.
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37
Spending time with others and having mutual friends is part of the recreational quality of intimacy.
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Intimacy that grows from shared activities is just as valid as intimacy that grows from shared disclosure.
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39
Control is one of the three components in the "triangle of love."
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Relationships between partners from different ethnic groups are similar to those where the partners are from the same ethnic group.
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41
"Friends with benefits" is a common occurrence on college campuses.
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42
Communication is more implicit at the beginning of romantic relationships and more explicit as the relationship develops.
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Self-disclosure is deliberate.
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The use of artifacts (, tattoos, jewelry, or clothing) is a form of self-disclosure.
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Self-disclosure always leads to intimacy.
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46
We can converse with someone on a wide breadth of topics without necessarily self-disclosing.
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47
Social penetration theory assumes that we disclosure more and more as a relationship goes on.
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Self-disclosure is a large part of the communication between intimate partners.
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49
The "staircase model" of relational development assumes that relationships develop and deteriorate in a linear fashion.
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50
Pickup lines and canned come-ons are effective in initiating relationships with others.
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51
Acting strategically to maintain your relationships is likely to backfire.
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52
It is more difficult to start a relationship online than face-to-face.
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53
Texting is an effective way to maintain romantic relationships.
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54
Most people communicate termination talk in a forthright manner.
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55
Giving up part of what you want constitutes the neutralization strategy for dealing with relational dialectics.
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56
Emphasizing one end of the dialectical tension and ignoring the other constitutes the separation strategy for dealing with relational dialectics.
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57
Men often perceive communication as work.
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58
We use the selection strategy when we stop seeing relational dialectics as threatening.
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59
Defensiveness is a type of disconfirming behavior.
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60
Researchers can predict whether a couple will divorce based on the way they communicate with one another.
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61
Compare and contrast intimate versus romantic relationships.
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62
Why is it important to study intimate relationships?
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63
Explain why a workplace romance is probably a bad idea.
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64
How does communication in a romantic relationship change over time?
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65
What is the difference between self-disclosure and social penetration?
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66
Give examples that demonstrate your understanding of breadth and depth in self-disclosure.
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67
What are some things we should ask ourselves before disclosing something risky to a relational partner?
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68
What is the "staircase model" of relationship development?
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69
What are the five strategies we can use to maintain relationships? Give an example of each one.
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70
What are the three dialectical tensions that operate in relationships? Provide examples that illustrate each tension.
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71
What are four strategies relational partners can use to manage dialectical tensions? Provide examples of each strategy.
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72
What is disconfirming communication, and why is it uncivil?
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73
Explain how communication influences the development of intimate and romantic relationships. Provide an example to illustrate your understanding.
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74
Describe "staircase model" of relational development. Provide an example to illustrate your understanding.
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75
What are the three dialectical tensions that operate in a relationship? How do we manage them? Provide an example to illustrate your understanding.
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