A common interaction pattern in couples is called the demand/withdraw pattern.Which of the following is true about the research discussed in the text on demand/withdrawal in couples?
A) Women tend to demand and men tend to withdraw when discussing a problem the woman has brought up,but men and women equally demand and withdraw when discussing a problem that the man has brought up.
B) Men tend to demand and women tend to withdraw during conflict because men hold greater power in the relationship.
C) The demand/withdraw cycle tends to end fairly quickly,and even distressed couples are able to exit from this type of interaction.
D) The demand/withdraw pattern reflects a pattern of negative reciprocity whereby partners react to attacks from each other with increased hostility and blame.

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The research discussed in the text suggests that women tend to be the demander and men tend to be the withdrawer when discussing problems that the woman has brought up. However, when discussing problems that the man has brought up, men and women equally demand and withdraw. This finding suggests that the demand/withdraw pattern may be more driven by gender roles and expectations than by power differentials in the relationship. Option B is incorrect because while power differentials may contribute to conflict and communication patterns in couples, it is not the primary explanation for the demand/withdraw pattern. Option C is also incorrect because the demand/withdraw pattern can persist over time and contribute to relationship distress. Option D is partially correct in that the pattern can lead to negative reciprocity, but it does not reflect a general pattern of blame and hostility between partners.

A Common Interaction Pattern in Couples Is Called the Demand/withdraw