Many couples who repeatedly break up and reunite recall each other fondly when apart and swear that they could make the relationship work if they got together again. But after they do spend time together, they again wonder, "How could I ever have believed that this so-and-so would change?" This best exemplifies the _________.
A)avoidance-avoidance conflict
B)approach-approach conflict
C)approach-avoidance conflict
D)interpersonal conflict

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The situation described here fits the definition of an approach-avoidance conflict, where a person is attracted to a goal (approach) but also feels repelled by it (avoidance). In this case, the goal is the relationship, which the couple wants to approach because they have positive memories and feelings towards each other, but also wants to avoid because of the negative aspects that caused them to break up multiple times.

Many Couples Who Repeatedly Break Up and Reunite Recall Each