Empathic Joining Is to ________ as Unified Detachment Is to ________

Empathic joining is to ________ as unified detachment is to ________.

A) learning that undesirable aspects of the partner are unchangeable;recognizing positive aspects of negative behavior
B) recognizing positive aspects of negative behavior;learning that undesirable aspects of the partner are unchangeable
C) talking without charged emotion;removing blame
D) removing blame;talking without charged emotion