When your friend Ashley first started dating Tom,she told you he seemed like a really nice guy,but she did not spend much time talking about him.After some time,however,Ashley started complaining that Tom wanted to spend time with her constantly and seemed to expect more of a commitment from her than she was interested in giving.She felt frustrated that he did not respect her need for independence,and she eventually broke up with him.What is the most accurate statement?

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Ashley's initial lack of interest in talking about Tom suggests low attachment-related anxiety. Her frustration with Tom's desire for more commitment and her eventual break-up with him suggest high attachment-related avoidance. This combination points to a pattern of high avoidance and low anxiety, which is characteristic of individuals with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style.

When Your Friend Ashley First Started Dating Tom,she Told You