Gerson (Cited by Aulette)interviewed Men About "Negotiating the New Terrain

Gerson (cited by Aulette) interviewed men about "negotiating the new terrain of work,family and gender." She found that "involved fathers" face a dilemma between

A) spending time making money and spending time with their children.
B) spending time with their wives and spending time with their children.
C) pursuing a "fast track" or a "mommy-track" career path.
D) being secretive or open about their parental involvement to avoid or risk being labeled "whipped" by more traditional male friends.