Do Most People Want Their Partners to See Them 'As

Do most people want their partners to see them 'as they really are', or do most people prefer that their partners hold a highly positive, idealised view of what they are like?

A) Most people prefer that their partners see them 'as they really are'.
B) Most people prefer that their partners hold an overly positive, idealised view.
C) People with high self-esteem prefer that their partners see them 'as they really are', while people with low self-esteem prefer that their partners hold an overly positive, idealised view.
D) Research on this issue has provided conflicting answers.