Bob tells Elise, "I notice that you bristle every time we talk about having another baby. I realize I'm not always as understanding as I should be. I'd like to talk to with you about it openly. Is there anything we can do to make the conversation less stressful for you?" Which style of expressing conflict did he use?

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Bob's approach is an example of assertiveness. He directly addresses his observation and feelings, expresses a desire to understand and improve the situation, and invites open communication without being aggressive or passive.

Bob Tells Elise, "I Notice That You Bristle Every Time