Roiphe Claims That "People [Verbally] Pressure and Manipulate and Cajole

Roiphe claims that "people [verbally] pressure and manipulate and cajole each other into all sorts of things all of the time"-including sex. However, Roiphe doesn't think that every sexual encounter that results from verbal pressure, manipulation, or cajoling is an instance of rape. Come up with three cases that (a) involve verbal pressure, manipulation, or cajoling but (b) are such that Roiphe wouldn't call them rape. What should we call them? (The answers might be different.) And if they aren't rape, then are they morally okay? (Again, the answers might be different.)