Your Best Friend Has Been Having Problems with Her Husband

Your best friend has been having problems with her husband who sometimes wouldn't come at all during penetration. She's been organizing special nights with candles and lingerie, when she would tell him, "Now you'll come for sure with all this sexy atmosphere." He eventually told her she made him suffer from "performance anxiety." She thinks he made that up. It's not a thing! What do you say to that?

A) It is a thing - he feels a lot of pressure to come quickly when you have put so much effort in creating the mood and you have these strict expectations.
B) He's making it up. He's looking for excuses because he's probably masturbating and watching porn too much to be turned on by a regular woman.
C) It is a thing in general, but it shouldn't be in his case since you're giving him all this extra stimulation with the candles and sexy lingerie.
D) It is a term in sex therapy, but it has nothing to do with your situation. It refers to performing gender roles in society, not to having sex with someone.