Helen and Ramira Have Been Dating for Six Months When

Helen and Ramira have been dating for six months when Helen brings Ramira to a family dinner for the first time. The dinner doesn't go very well; Helen's family thought Ramira was cold and rude. Helen knows Ramira didn't mean to appear rude, but she has noticed this behaviour when they are out with their friends as well, and she wants to discuss it with Ramira so that it doesn't happen again. What can Helen do to have the best possible chance of a positive conversation with Ramira?

A) Helen can start the conversation by noting how difficult it is to talk about this particular issue.
B) Helen can start the conversation by noting how embarrassed she felt, rather than angry.
C) Helen can start the conversation by gently asking Ramira if she ever thinks of herself as rude.
D) Either A or B