Describe and provide relevant examples of an active-constructive response, a passive-constructive response and a passive destructive response in partner communication.

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When Jesse shares the news with her partner, an active-constructive response would be something like, 'That is wonderful! Do you know who your mentor will be? It sounds like you will be able to do some really exciting research there; tell me more!' The active-constructive response shows interest and savours the good news.

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In contrast, a passive-constructive response would be much less enthusiastic, for example, a warm smile and, 'good job, sweetie'. It is still positive, but does not engage deeply or prompt additional conversation. Destructive responses are more obviously negative. For example, in an active-destructive response, Jesse's partner might say, 'Oh jeez, I guess that means you will have to move away from all your friends. And the heavy workload there-it's not like you'll have time for friends anyway. Are you sure you can keep up?' This response is active, but in taking good news and finding problems with it. Even when there are valid concerns, rushing to them first is unlikely to benefit the relationship.

Describe and Provide Relevant Examples of an Active-Constructive Response, a Passive-Constructive