When Sociologists Argue That People Seek a "Shared Definition of the Situation

When sociologists argue that people seek a "shared definition of the situation," they mean

A) much of our attention and energy in social situation is spent figuring out the rules, how to follow them, and how to bend them to our advantage
B) because the rules in most social situations are unclear, people must work together to explicitly define them
C) we fight about what is "common courtesy," which takes our attention away from more important social problems
D) the rules in any given social situation are determined by those people with the least amount of social power