James and Mary Want to Raise Their Child to Have

James and Mary want to raise their child to have the greatest amount of future possibilities. As much as possible, they want their child to be able to shape his/her own future, including choosing clothing and hairstyles and a profession of his/her choice. Explain which of the following (sex, gender, gender identity, gender roles) James and Mary can leave open for their child, how they can leave a characteristic for the child to decide, and why these characteristics can or cannot be left for the child to decide.