When You Are Trying to Determine Which Inclusive Term to Use

When you are trying to determine which inclusive term to use to refer to a colleague, ________.

A) use broad, vague terms to avoid offending your colleague
B) ask as directly as possible to avoid misunderstanding
C) look the term up online and make an educated decision
D) ask the person directly for his or her preference, but do so with plenty of context
E) avoid using any term at all if you can