The nurse is working in a pediatric intensive care unit.A young couple has just been informed that their 6-year-old son has died after being in the unit for 1 month.The couple is grief stricken and says to the nurse,"We can't believe this has happened.He was too young.God is watching over him.Do you believe in God?" What is the most appropriate response by the nurse?

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The death of a child is one of the most difficult life events for a family as well as for the nurse who may witness it.In this item,a seemingly harmless statement such as "He is in a better place" or "He has suffered enough" may be hurtful and even offensive for the family.It is better not to offer opinions or judgments.If a family asks what you,the nurse,think,you can briefly share your beliefs and answer their question,but reflect their questions back to them.The most appropriate response by the nurse is to briefly answer the question and refer back to the family.The answer,"It doesn't matter what I think ..." sounds abrupt and opinionated.

The Nurse Is Working in a Pediatric Intensive Care Unit