Hedda and Kate have been sharing an apartment for two months,but they're both frustrated.Hedda is tired of nagging Kate about cleaning up after herself,and Kate is tired of being nagged every time she leaves an unwashed coffee cup in the sink.Which of the following strategies might help them resolve their conflict?

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Using "I" messages allows each roommate to express their feelings and desires without blaming or accusing the other person. This approach can help to deescalate the conflict and promote a more productive conversation towards finding a mutually acceptable solution. Option A puts the blame on the listener, which can create defensiveness, while option C avoids the problem altogether, and option D doesn't allow for ongoing communication to ensure the solution is effective.

Hedda and Kate Have Been Sharing an Apartment for Two