Your Close Friend Has Been Notified That Her Husband Committed

Your close friend has been notified that her husband committed suicide at work. Your most helpful response would be:

A) to express your concerns for her and her family
B) to offer to collect donations from neighbors and friends
C) to listen to her fears, needs, and feelings
D) to encourage her and others not to talk about this horrible type of death
E) to tell her you understand what she is going through