What Advice Would You Give to a Newly Created Blended

What advice would you give to a newly created blended family?

A) Stepfathers should show interest in stepchildren, but avoid getting in the way of established relationships.
B) Mothers should spend more time with the stepfather and less time with her children than she did before her remarriage.
C) Mothers and stepfathers should have high expectations for the relationships they have with the children.
D) Mothers and stepfathers should realize that the children will probably never adjust to the blended family.