Question 1

According to John Gottman and his colleagues, anger, sadness, whining, disgust, tension and fear, belligerence, contempt, and defensiveness are all examples of

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John Gottman and his colleagues identify all of these emotions as examples of negative affect in relationships. Negative affect refers to any negative feelings or emotions that arise during interactions with a partner.

Question 2

The text points out that it is impossible to when a person is in the "wanting-revenge, feeling-stung-and- needing-to-sting-back" state of mind.

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The answer of The text points out that it is...

Question 3

In a recent book on men and communication called I Don't Want to Talk About It, therapist Terrence Real attributes males' withdrawal to

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Terrence Real attributes males' withdrawal to a "secret legacy of depression."

Question 4

When faced with a complaint from their partner, men tend to withdraw emotionally while women do not. This response is so common that therapists have named it the " pattern."

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This response pattern is commonly seen in relationships where women tend to demand emotional connection while men withdraw. This can lead to communication breakdown and relationship issues.

Question 5

In communicating with each other, Naveed asks Tasha if his perception of her feelings is accurate. His behavior reflects

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Naveed is checking for accuracy by asking Tasha if his perception of her feelings is correct. Therefore, his behavior reflects "checking it out."

Question 6

All of the following are examples of social media EXCEPT

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Social media platforms are websites and applications that allow users to create and share content or to participate in social networking. The Wall Street Journal is a news publication and does not fit this definition of social media.

Question 7

Jennifer and Rhonda have agreed upon a time and a place for a fight. However strange this may appear, Jennifer and Rhonda have followed the guideline that the text calls

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Jennifer and Rhonda have agreed upon a time and a place for their fight, which means they are arguing "by appointment." This method allows for a controlled and safe environment for expressing conflict.

Question 8

According to John Gottman and his colleagues, when one partner's first negative expression is reciprocated with an escalation of the negativity, this reflects

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This reflects "refusing-to-accept influence," where one partner's negativity is met with increased negativity, leading to conflict escalation.

Question 9

What false belief is detrimental to a relationship?

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Assuming that your partner should automatically know how you think and feel can create a barrier to effective communication and understanding in a relationship. It's important to openly and honestly express your thoughts and feelings to your partner to ensure mutual understanding and to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings or conflicts.

Question 10

Research clearly indicates that the tactics associated with winning in a particular conflict are also those associated with

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Research has shown that tactics aimed at winning in conflicts, often characterized by aggression or dominance, tend to be associated with lower relationship satisfaction. This is because such tactics can lead to feelings of resentment, decreased trust, and emotional distance between partners.

Question 11

Mike has agreed to go out to eat with his wife Ellen, but at the same time yawns and says that he is tired and had a hard day at work. Mike's behavior illustrates

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Mike's behavior is contradictory as he agrees to go out but also expresses his fatigue, leading to a mixed or double message.

Question 12

According to John Gottman and his colleagues, belligerence, contempt, and defensiveness are examples of

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According to John Gottman and his colleagues, belligerence, contempt, and defensiveness are examples of high-intensity negative affect, which can be harmful to relationships.

Question 13

Deborah Tannen argues that men typically engage in conversation aimed mainly at conveying information, which she refers to as

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Deborah Tannen argues that men typically engage in conversation aimed mainly at conveying information, which she refers to as "report talk."

Question 14

LaToya and Christian have been having a bad day. LaToya asks Christian what is wrong. Christian replies, "Oh, nothing," but the look on his face and his body language suggest otherwise. Christian's behavior reflects

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Christian's behavior of saying "nothing" while clearly showing that something is wrong through his facial expression and body language is an example of the silent treatment. This is when someone refuses to speak or engage with their partner, causing communication breakdown and emotional distance.

Question 15

Helping partners accept their spouses as they are instead of demanding change is called therapy.

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The statement describes the process of accepting one's partner as they are, which is a key goal of therapy. The other choices, primal scream, restitution, and status quo, do not accurately capture this concept.

Question 16

Which of the following is the most helpful "I-statement"?

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Option A is the most helpful "I-statement" because it expresses the speaker's feelings in a clear and non-confrontational way, without attacking or blaming the other person. This allows for open communication and the potential for resolution without escalating the situation. The other options either use accusatory language or assume to know the other person's intentions, which can lead to defensiveness and further conflict.

Question 17

Joline and Noah have been married for several years. They respond to each other warmly, with interest, affection, and shared humor. Joline and Noah's behavior reflects

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The behavior described in the scenario reflects positive affect, as Joline and Noah respond to each other warmly with interest, affection, and shared humor.

Question 18

Counselors encourage making time for play and new activities in a relationship, partly because new experiences release a neurochemical called that acts on the pleasure center in the brain.

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Dopamine is the neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and reward in the brain. Engaging in new activities and experiences releases dopamine, which reinforces the behavior and can lead to an increase in overall relationship satisfaction.

Question 19

According to John Gottman and his colleagues, anger, sadness, and whining are examples of

Accepted Answer

John Gottman and his colleagues classify emotions like anger, sadness, and whining as low-intensity negative affects. These are not the most intense forms of negative emotions but are indicative of displeasure or upset in a less severe form.

Question 20

In John Gottman's investigations, was the only variable that predicted both marital stability and marital happiness among stable couples.

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Gottman's research identified that the amount of positive affect (such as humor and affection) expressed during conflicts was a key predictor of both marital stability and happiness among couples who remained together. Positive interactions during conflict help to mitigate the negative effects of the conflict and strengthen the relationship.

Quiz 11: Communication in Relationships, Marriages, and Families