Question 1

During which era did the idea that romantic love is the most desirable form of love become popular?

Accepted Answer

The concept of romantic love as the most desirable form of love emerged in the 19th century, with the rise of literature and art depicting romantic love as a central theme. Prior to that, love was typically viewed in a more practical or utilitarian way, such as arranged marriages for social or financial gain.

Question 2

What method did psychologist, John Alan Lee, use to identify the six different ways to love which he called "colors" of love?

Accepted Answer

John Alan Lee used the method of collecting statements about love from a wide range of literary sources, both fiction and nonfiction, including works by ancient and modern authors, to identify the six different ways to love, which he termed "colors" of love.

Question 3

According to Sternberg, what differentiates romantic love from other kinds of love?

Accepted Answer

B

Question 4

"I feel very possessive about _____" is an example from which part of Rubin's Love Scale?

Accepted Answer

The answer of "I feel very possessive about _____" is...

Question 5

According to Sternberg, what best describes intimacy?

Accepted Answer

According to Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love, intimacy refers to feelings of closeness, connectedness, and bonding in a loving relationship. It is one of the three components of love along with passion and commitment. This emotional connection is developed through communication, sharing experiences, and providing emotional support to one another.

Question 6

Brian and Ann have been married for over 20 years and they describe their feelings for each other as intimate, trusting, loyal, and romantic. What term best describes their love?

Accepted Answer

Companionate love is characterized by feelings of intimacy, trust, loyalty, and affection that develop over a long-term committed relationship, such as a marriage. While romantic and passionate love may also be present in the relationship, companionate love is often considered a more stable and enduring type of love that is based on a deep emotional connection and shared experiences. Sacrificial love, while important in relationships, is not necessarily applicable to the description given.

Question 7

According to recent research, when people feel loved and can open up and talk with each other, which of the following becomes stronger?

Accepted Answer

Recent research suggests that feeling loved and being able to communicate openly with others can strengthen immune functioning. Being able to talk about one's feelings and experiences can reduce stress and promote overall physical and mental well-being. There is no evidence to suggest that feeling loved and open communication affects religious commitment, financial well-being, or cultural identity.

Question 8

"If I could never be with ____, I would feel miserable" is an example from which part of Rubin's Love Scale?

Accepted Answer

This statement reflects a strong need for the person in question and therefore falls under Rubin's "Needing" category of the Love Scale.

Question 9

What was one example given in the text for how a couple's score on Rubin's love scale correlates with their behavior?

Accepted Answer

The text states that couples with higher scores on Rubin's love scale are more likely to eventually get married.

Question 10

"I would do almost anything for her" is an example from which part of Rubin's Love Scale?

Accepted Answer

The answer of "I would do almost anything for her"...

Question 11

Erik says "Love is a shopping list. You go through life trying to find a partner who has all of the items on your list." According to Lee what is Erik's love style?

Accepted Answer

Erik's statement suggests a pragmatic approach to love, where he sees it as a checklist of qualities to look for in a partner. This aligns with the Pragma love style.

Question 12

What is the term used to describe love that will never be returned?

Accepted Answer

Unrequited love refers to a situation where one person loves another who does not feel the same way. There is no reciprocal or mutual love, and the feelings are one-sided.

Question 13

Thao thinks Nick may like him because they have made prolonged eye contact several times during class. Thao finds himself grabbing an extra soda for Nick, offering him help on his homework and spending time hanging out after class with him. As he thinks about this, he realizes he is falling for Nick. What theory does this best exemplify?

Accepted Answer

Thao's actions and thoughts suggest that he is interpreting prolonged eye contact, offering help and spending time with Nick as indicators of potential attraction. This interpretation aligns with the cognitive theory of love, which emphasizes the role of subjective perceptions and interpretations in shaping our romantic feelings and behaviors.

Question 14

According to Sternberg's love triangles, what term is used for the absence of the three building blocks of love?

Accepted Answer

According to Sternberg's love triangles, the absence of the three building blocks of love (intimacy, passion, and commitment) is called nonlove. Therefore, option C is the correct answer. Option A (jealousy) and option D (manic love) are not relevant in this context. Option B (unrequited love) is a type of love where one person has feelings for someone who doesn't have the same feelings in return, but it still involves the three building blocks of love.

Question 15

What did Robert Sternberg's research propose?

Accepted Answer

Robert Sternberg's research proposed that love is made up of three different elements - intimacy, passion, and commitment - which can be combined in different ways to form different types of love, including consummate love (which includes all three elements) and other forms like romantic love (intimacy and passion) and companionship love (intimacy and commitment).

Question 16

According to research, what lovestyles identified by Lee are associated with poorer psychological health?

Accepted Answer

According to research, both manic and ludic lovestyles are associated with poorer psychological health. Manic lovestyle involves impulsive behavior, intense passion, and jealousy, while ludic lovestyle involves treating love as a game and avoiding commitment. Both of these lovestyles can cause emotional distress and difficulties in relationships.

Question 17

When asked to describe his relationship with his partner, Jason says he knew it was love at first sight and that he loves to close his eyes and feel the touch and smell of his lover. According to Lee what is Jason's love style?

Accepted Answer

Jason's emphasis on the physical sensations of touch and smell suggests an erotic love style, which focuses on passionate physical attraction and intense physical experiences.

Question 18

What are the three components of attachment measure by Rubin's "Love Scale"?

Accepted Answer

Rubin's "Love Scale" measures the components of needing, caring, and trusting in romantic relationships.

Question 19

What is "passion" according to Sternberg's research?

Accepted Answer

According to Sternberg's research, passion is sparked by physical attraction and sexual desire driving a person to pursue a romantic relationship.

Question 20

Michelle likes to do sweet and romantic things for her partner. In fact, she will often put her partner's needs above her own. Her partner's happiness is more important than her own. According to Lee what is Michelle's love style?

Accepted Answer

Michelle's behavior aligns with the Agape love style, which prioritizes selflessness, giving, and sacrificing one's own needs for the sake of their partner's happiness.

Quiz 7: Love and Intimacy