Question 1

The love language that expresses love more clearly than any other is "words of affirmation."

Accepted Answer

There is no single love language that universally expresses love more clearly than others; it varies from person to person.

Question 2

The average Facebook user has 400 friends.

Accepted Answer

The average number of friends for a Facebook user has been reported to be around 338, according to various studies and reports, not 400.

Question 3

According to research studies, which family communication pattern produces more productive and satisfying results?

Accepted Answer

Research shows that both consensual and pluralistic family communication patterns are associated with higher levels of satisfaction, cohesion, and adaptability within families. These two patterns emphasize open communication, expressing emotions, and active listening, which can lead to more productive and satisfying relationships. While protective and laissez-faire patterns can be effective in certain situations, they are generally associated with lower levels of satisfaction and cohesion within families. Therefore, option C is the best choice as it encompasses both consensual and pluralistic patterns.

Question 4

Research suggests that relationships are more likely to be happy and successful if the couple has at least five times more positive interactions than negative ones.

Accepted Answer

Research has shown that a ratio of at least 5:1 positive to negative interactions is associated with happy and successful relationships.

Question 5

Siblings who are ___________ are often more extraverted and concerned with control than their brothers and sisters.

Accepted Answer

Research has shown that first-born siblings tend to exhibit more extraverted and dominant personalities, as well as a greater concern for control and achievement compared to their younger siblings.

Question 6

Research suggests the validating conflict style is ideal for all couples.

Accepted Answer

The validating conflict style may not be ideal for all couples as different couples have different dynamics and what works for one couple may not work for another.

Question 7

The giving of gifts is a shallow and materialistic act and certainly does not express one's love toward another.

Accepted Answer

Gift-giving can be a meaningful expression of love and appreciation, as it often involves thoughtfulness and consideration of the recipient's preferences and needs.

Question 8

Research supports the idea that-in "friends with benefits" relationships-women are more typically focused on "friends" and men are more likely to be interested in "benefits."

Accepted Answer

Numerous studies have shown that women in "friends with benefits" relationships tend to value the friendship aspect more, while men are more likely to prioritize the sexual benefits. This is believed to be related to societal gender norms and expectations. However, it's important to note that not all individuals in these relationships fit this stereotype and preferences may vary.

Question 9

One researcher suggests that if couples maintain a "magic ratio" of positive to negative interactions they will be likely to be more successful.

Accepted Answer

Research conducted by Dr. John Gottman suggests that if couples maintain a ratio of five positive interactions to every negative interaction, they are more likely to have a successful relationship. This is also known as the "magic ratio" of 5:1.

Question 10

Social psychologist Roy Baumeister makes the case that, on average, most people want ___________ close, important relationships in their lives at any given time.

Accepted Answer

The answer of Social psychologist Roy Baumeister makes the case...

Question 11

A romantic turning point is always positive.

Accepted Answer

A romantic turning point can be positive or negative depending on the outcome and impact it has on the relationship.

Question 12

The text states that romantic partners who fear rejection and abandonment are likely to act in ways that increase the odds of their fears coming to pass.This example best relates to which concept from Chapter Two?

Accepted Answer

The situation described in the text where individuals act in ways that increase the likelihood of their fears coming true is a classic example of a self-fulfilling prophecy. The individuals' fears influence their behavior, which in turn shapes the outcome they were fearing.

Question 13

It is possible to have close quality friendships with more than 150 people.

Accepted Answer

According to the Dunbar's number theory, the average human can maintain close relationships with only around 150 people. This is because of our brain's limited capacity to manage and process social information. While we may have many acquaintances and casual friendships beyond this number, maintaining deep and meaningful friendships with more than 150 individuals may become challenging.

Question 14

The first big fight in a relationship is a common romantic turning point.

Accepted Answer

The first big fight in a relationship can often serve as an opportunity for the couple to work through issues and learn how to communicate and compromise effectively, which can strengthen the relationship.

Question 15

When Marlina and Zach fight, they blow things out of proportion, interrupt each other, and yell.Their conflict style is most likely

Accepted Answer

The description of blowing things out of proportion, interrupting each other, and yelling is indicative of a volatile conflict style.

Question 16

Assuming your partner speaks the same love language as you is the key to success.

Accepted Answer

Understanding and adapting to your partner's love language, which may differ from your own, is important for effective communication and relationship success.

Question 17

Which of the following is not a characteristic of families described in the text?

Accepted Answer

All of the given characteristics (interdependence, communication, nesting, and being more than the sum of their parts) are described as characteristics of families in the text. Therefore, none of them can be considered "not a characteristic" of families.

Question 18

Most Facebook "friends" could probably be more accurately labeled "acquaintances."

Accepted Answer

While some Facebook "friends" may be actual friends, many are simply acquaintances or people we have met briefly at some point.

Question 19

Envisioning our family members represented in a mobile, with photos of each member suspended by a thread and connected to bars containing images of other members, may help us better understand the idea that

Accepted Answer

The image of a mobile with interconnected parts represents the idea of families as systems, where each member is connected to and impacted by the others. The image emphasizes the interdependence and interconnectedness of the family unit, which is a key aspect of a systems perspective. It does not necessarily speak to the voluntariness, role-driven nature, formative impact, or variability of family communication patterns.

Question 20

It is difficult to learn a new love language.Therefore, we are probably better off finding a romantic partner with a style for expressing love that matches ours.

Accepted Answer

While it may be challenging to learn a new love language, it is not impossible, and it can be beneficial for improving communication and understanding in a relationship. It is possible for individuals with different love languages to have a successful relationship as long as they are willing to put in the effort to learn and communicate effectively with each other.

Quiz 9: Communication in Close Relationships