Question 1

When parents consistently adopt strategies that assist children in their efforts to feel good about themselves and increase their children's self-esteem there is

Accepted Answer

When parents support their children's self-esteem, it often leads to less resistance from the children. This is because children who feel good about themselves are more likely to cooperate and engage positively with their parents and others.

Question 2

When a parent says to a child who is running on the sidewalk, "We walk on the sidewalk because if we run on the sidewalk, we might fall down and get hurt," that parent is using which of the following strategies?

Accepted Answer

Induction is a strategy where an explanation is given for why a behavior is expected, in this case, explaining the potential consequences of running on the sidewalk to teach the child about safety.

Question 3

The concept of misbehavior accounts for a large variation in behavior. Dreikurs maintained that misbehavior is often the result of a child's:

Accepted Answer

Dreikurs argued that misbehavior in children is often a misguided attempt to achieve a sense of belonging or significance within their social group. He believed that understanding the underlying goals of a child's behavior is crucial for addressing it effectively.

Question 4

Which of the following is an example of a parent's use of "four pluses and a wish"?

Accepted Answer

The "four pluses and a wish" technique involves providing positive reinforcement or feedback before making a request or suggesting an improvement. Choice B describes a scenario where positive actions (smiling, saying the child's name, going over to the child, and complimenting) precede a request, fitting the description of "four pluses and a wish."

Question 5

According to Briggs, which of the following is the chief goal of parenting?

Accepted Answer

Briggs emphasizes the importance of building a strong sense of self-worth in children as the chief goal of parenting, as it lays the foundation for their overall development and well-being.

Question 6

The use of communication roadblocks by a parent results in the child feeling as if the parent _____________ what is being said.

Accepted Answer

Communication roadblocks can make a child feel as if the parent has not heard or is not listening to what they are saying, leading to feelings of being misunderstood or ignored.

Question 7

Which of the following is an example of parental praise rather than parental encouragement?

Accepted Answer

Parental praise focuses on the parent's evaluation or feelings about the child's accomplishment ("I'm proud of you."), whereas parental encouragement often focuses on the child's feelings, efforts, or the process ("How do you feel about that?").

Question 8

Which of the following is an example of natural consequences?

Accepted Answer

Natural consequences are the direct result of a person's actions without any intervention. In choice B, Tamika pulling the cat's tail and then getting scratched is a direct, natural consequence of her action.

Question 9

Which of the following represents Dreikurs' recommendation regarding ways in which parents should provide encouragement for their children?

Accepted Answer

Dreikurs recommended that parents should provide encouragement for children's efforts regardless of success, as this fosters intrinsic motivation and self-esteem.

Question 10

Which of the following is a strategy for preventing children's misbehavior?

Accepted Answer

Encouragement that shifts parental focus from mistakes to appreciation is a positive strategy that helps in reinforcing good behavior and preventing misbehavior by promoting a supportive environment.

Question 11

Which of the following is an example of parental encouragement?

Accepted Answer

Parental encouragement involves recognizing and reinforcing a child's efforts and progress, as seen in choice A, which acknowledges the child's progress and encourages them to feel good about their achievements.

Question 12

According to Dreikurs, in their efforts to achieve a sense of belongingness, children often pursue ______ secondary goals of misbehavior.

Accepted Answer

According to Dreikurs, children pursue four secondary goals of misbehavior in their efforts to achieve a sense of belongingness. These goals are attention getting, power, revenge, and displaying inadequacy.

Question 13

According to Thomas Gordon, the first step in problem solving is determining who owns the problems. The person who owns the problem is the one who:

Accepted Answer

Thomas Gordon's model of problem-solving emphasizes that the person who owns the problem is the one who is distressed by the situation. This approach focuses on identifying the emotional owner of the problem to effectively address and solve it.

Question 14

To actively listen to a child, the parent needs to:

Accepted Answer

Actively listening involves understanding and reflecting back the child's message in your own words, which helps the child feel heard and understood.

Question 15

According to Briggs, parents foster their children's self-esteem by which of the following?

Accepted Answer

Briggs emphasizes the importance of parents connecting to each child with fresh eyes, which means seeing and appreciating each child's unique qualities and individuality, thereby fostering their self-esteem.

Question 16

Which of the following is one of the questions that Briggs recommends that parents ask themselves when examining guidance decisions?

Accepted Answer

Briggs emphasizes the importance of approaches that encourage a child's sense of self-worth, as it is crucial for their overall development and well-being.

Question 17

When the parent owns the problem, an "I message" is used for the purpose of:

Accepted Answer

"I messages" are a communication tool used by parents (or anyone) to express their own feelings about a situation without placing blame on the child. This approach focuses on the speaker's feelings rather than criticizing or blaming the child's behavior, thereby encouraging more open and less defensive communication.

Question 18

Those parents who are likely to embrace a "prevention of problems" techniques are those who:

Accepted Answer

Parents who have higher levels of child acceptance are more likely to embrace a "prevention of problems" approach, as they tend to focus on understanding, supporting, and guiding their children in positive ways rather than relying on punishment or less involvement.

Question 19

According to Dorothy Briggs, in creating an atmosphere of psychological safety, parents assist their children with the development of:

Accepted Answer

Dorothy Briggs emphasizes the importance of parents helping their children build their "house of self" to foster self-esteem, which is crucial for creating an atmosphere of psychological safety. This concept involves nurturing a child's sense of worth and value, distinct from their achievements or performance.

Question 20

If a parent feels hurt by a child's words or other deliberate acts designed to hurt others such as damaging property), the child's goal is probably:

Accepted Answer

When a child deliberately hurts others or damages property as a means to hurt, it often indicates a desire to seek revenge. This behavior is a way to express anger or dissatisfaction by causing harm to those they believe have wronged them.

Quiz 4: Child Socialization and Techniques