Question 1

Which of the following statements is true with respect to the presence of conflict in marriage?

Accepted Answer

Conflict in a marriage does not inherently mean the relationship is unsatisfactory, unavoidable, or always negative. Instead, it often indicates that the couple may need to adjust their strategies and rules for managing their relationship. This perspective supports the idea that conflict can be a catalyst for growth and improvement within a marriage.

Question 2

According to Gottman:

Accepted Answer

Gottman's research found that satisfied couples tend to have a 5 to 1 ratio of positive to negative interactions, which is a key indicator of relationship health. Not all problems are considered solvable according to his theories, and while addressing problems is important, his work emphasizes the manner and balance of interactions more.

Question 3

Distinguished by a degree of legitimacy,___________ refers to efforts on the part of an individual to control the behavior of another or the relationship.

Accepted Answer

Power is the correct answer because it refers to the ability or capacity of an individual to influence the behavior of others or the course of events, which includes efforts to control another's behavior or the dynamics of a relationship. Authority might imply a legitimate or formal right to exercise power, but power itself can exist with or without formal authority, making it the broader and more accurate term for the definition provided.

Question 4

When restoring harmony and maintaining intimacy are the goals of conflict management, strategies tend to emphasize

Accepted Answer

Compromise and cooperation are strategies that focus on finding mutually beneficial solutions and maintaining positive relationships, which align with the goals of restoring harmony and maintaining intimacy.

Question 5

__________couples may have bitter arguments but can still maintain a sense of connection and intimacy.

Accepted Answer

Volatile couples often engage in passionate arguments but can maintain a strong connection and intimacy through their emotional investment and clear communication.

Question 6

___________refers to a pattern of interaction that maintains a facade of mutuality and harmony that is often devoid of intimacy because the fear of conflict makes the experience of getting close to another too risky to undertake.

Accepted Answer

Pseudomutuality refers to a pattern of interaction in which a superficial appearance of mutual understanding and harmony is maintained, often at the expense of genuine intimacy and conflict resolution. This occurs because individuals fear that addressing conflicts or deeper issues might disrupt the relationship, leading them to avoid genuine closeness.

Question 7

Which of the following statements is true?

Accepted Answer

The answer of Which of the following statements is true?
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Question 8

Which of the following is true with respect to conflicts that are caused by the conflicting needs for separateness and connectedness?

Accepted Answer

Conflicts arising from the differing needs for separateness and connectedness are common in relationships, and how couples manage these conflicts is crucial for the long-term health of the relationship. It's not about which need is more important or that these conflicts are easily resolved, but rather how the couple navigates these differences.

Question 9

Efforts to restore fairness and equity include

Accepted Answer

Efforts to restore fairness and equity in a relationship can involve decreasing the costs associated with the relationship, increasing the benefits derived from the relationship, and even decreasing the partner's benefits from the relationship to balance perceived inequities.

Question 10

With regard to the attributions that accompany conflict, which of the following statements is NOT true?

Accepted Answer

Attributions we make during conflicts are closely related to our feelings about the relationship. Positive feelings often lead to more benign attributions, while negative feelings can result in more critical or negative attributions towards the partner's behavior or intentions.

Question 11

"Turning toward," "turning away," and "turning against" are all possible responses to the____________ of a partner.

Accepted Answer

"Turning toward," "turning away," and "turning against" are responses to a partner's emotional bids, as described in the Gottman Method of relationship therapy. Emotional bids are attempts by a partner to establish connection or gain attention, and how one responds can significantly affect the relationship's health.

Question 12

In a __________, each partner maintains a rigid position that is non-negotiable.

Accepted Answer

In a power struggle, partners often maintain rigid, non-negotiable positions, each trying to dominate or win over the other, which prevents compromise or mutual understanding.

Question 13

The use of ____________can be viewed as a conflict management strategy that relies on the threat of punishment and the use of force as a way of controlling a partner.

Accepted Answer

Violence is the correct answer because it specifically refers to the use of physical force or the threat of such force to control or dominate a partner, which is a form of conflict management strategy that relies on intimidation and punishment.

Question 14

_________couples live with the pain of unsolved, yet solvable problems without falling into a pattern of negativity and distancing.

Accepted Answer

Conflict-minimizing couples are able to live with the pain of unsolved, yet solvable problems without falling into a pattern of negativity and distancing.

Question 15

The term_________ is used to refer to situations where the rewards derived from a relationship are proportional to the costs. That is, what one gets out of the relationship is comparable to what one puts into the relationship.

Accepted Answer

The answer of The term_________ is used to refer to...

Question 16

The term_________ is used to refer to that situation where the benefits or rewards derived from a relationship are comparable to those the partner derives.

Accepted Answer

The answer of The term_________ is used to refer to...

Question 17

A husband and wife disagree about who should clean the bathroom and about how it should be cleaned. This is an example of

Accepted Answer

This scenario illustrates a conflict arising from different role expectations, where the husband and wife have differing views on who is responsible for cleaning the bathroom and how it should be done.

Question 18

____________-couples are able to maintain closeness and intimacy by listening respectfully to one another and confirming each other's feelings.

Accepted Answer

Validating couples are characterized by their ability to maintain closeness and intimacy through mutual respect and confirmation of each other's feelings, often engaging in active listening and open communication.

Question 19

According to Gottman, the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse include all of the following EXEPT:

Accepted Answer

Gottman's Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, which predict the end of a relationship, include Criticism, Defensiveness, Stonewalling, and Contempt, not Complaints. Complaints are considered normal in relationships, whereas the Four Horsemen are destructive behaviors.

Question 20

Conflict management goals, the attribution of causality, and interactional patterns

Accepted Answer

These elements influence how conflicts are managed by shaping perceptions, responses, and strategies in conflict situations.

Quiz 10: Conflict in Marriage

Which of the following statements is true with respect to the presence of conflict in marriage?

According to Gottman:

Distinguished by a degree of legitimacy,___________ refers to efforts on the part of an individual to control the behavior of another or the relationship.

When restoring harmony and maintaining intimacy are the goals of conflict management, strategies tend to emphasize

__________couples may have bitter arguments but can still maintain a sense of connection and intimacy.

___________refers to a pattern of interaction that maintains a facade of mutuality and harmony that is often devoid of intimacy because the fear of conflict makes the experience of getting close to another too risky to undertake.

Which of the following statements is true?

Which of the following is true with respect to conflicts that are caused by the conflicting needs for separateness and connectedness?

Efforts to restore fairness and equity include

With regard to the attributions that accompany conflict, which of the following statements is NOT true?

"Turning toward," "turning away," and "turning against" are all possible responses to the____________ of a partner.

In a __________, each partner maintains a rigid position that is non-negotiable.

The use of ____________can be viewed as a conflict management strategy that relies on the threat of punishment and the use of force as a way of controlling a partner.

_________couples live with the pain of unsolved, yet solvable problems without falling into a pattern of negativity and distancing.

The term_________ is used to refer to situations where the rewards derived from a relationship are proportional to the costs. That is, what one gets out of the relationship is comparable to what one puts into the relationship.

The term_________ is used to refer to that situation where the benefits or rewards derived from a relationship are comparable to those the partner derives.

A husband and wife disagree about who should clean the bathroom and about how it should be cleaned. This is an example of

____________-couples are able to maintain closeness and intimacy by listening respectfully to one another and confirming each other's feelings.

According to Gottman, the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse include all of the following EXEPT:

Conflict management goals, the attribution of causality, and interactional patterns