Question 1

There are four criteria of a successful marriage. Which one is not one of the criteria?

Accepted Answer

Romance, while important in many relationships, is not considered a standalone criterion for a successful marriage by most relationship experts. Successful marriages often focus on durability, the fulfillment of needs, and the approximation of ideals as core criteria.

Question 2

One measure of marital success is whether the marriage makes a sufficient contribution to individual needs, including which of the following?

Accepted Answer

Marital success can be measured by how well the marriage meets various individual needs, including sexual, social, and psychological needs. Each of these aspects is crucial for the overall health and satisfaction within a marriage.

Question 3

___________ has been studying what makes some marriages happy and others miserable.

Accepted Answer

John Gottman is known for his work on marital stability and relationship analysis through scientific direct observations, which has led to the development of a method to predict the likelihood of a marriage succeeding or failing.

Question 4

Successful couples

Accepted Answer

Successful couples often strive for improvement in their relationship, recognizing that growth and effort are key components to maintaining a healthy and strong partnership. Choices A and C are not always true for every successful couple, as all relationships face challenges and periods of dissatisfaction.

Question 5

Some messages

Accepted Answer

Messages can be perceived differently by different people, some may see them as negative while others may see them as positive, depending on various factors such as context, tone, and personal experiences.

Question 6

Human beings differ in terms of their

Accepted Answer

Human beings differ in various aspects, including their needs, preferences, and habits, making "All of the above" the correct answer.

Question 7

According to numerous studies, one of the most important requirements in a successful marriage is

Accepted Answer

Good communication is consistently identified as a crucial element in a successful marriage, as it fosters understanding, empathy, and connection between partners.

Question 8

The text identifies destructive communication as involving all of the following except:

Accepted Answer

Walking away is often considered a form of non-engagement or avoidance rather than destructive communication. Destructive communication typically involves active negative behaviors such as being hurtful, critical, or making negative comments.

Question 9

One of the most basic human needs in a relationship is

Accepted Answer

Being accepted and being appreciated are fundamental emotional needs in relationships, contributing to a sense of belonging and value.

Question 10

Noncontingent reinforcement is

Accepted Answer

Noncontingent reinforcement refers to the delivery of rewards or reinforcements independently of any specific behavior. It is unconditional, meaning it does not depend on the person's actions or behaviors, aligning with the concept of unconditional approval of another person.

Question 11

Unconditional positive regard is

Accepted Answer

Unconditional positive regard is a concept in psychology that refers to accepting and supporting someone regardless of what they say or do, especially in a therapist-client relationship. It involves accepting the person as they are without judgment or evaluation.

Question 12

A major challenge for couples and families is

Accepted Answer

Spending enough time together is a major challenge for couples and families as it affects their ability to connect and maintain strong relationships amidst busy schedules and other commitments.

Question 13

__________ cautions that the goal of having your spouse be your best friend is difficult to achieve and not for everyone.

Accepted Answer

P. Schwartz cautions against the ideal of having your spouse be your best friend, arguing that it is a difficult goal to achieve and not suitable for everyone. This perspective suggests that while close friendship within marriage can be beneficial, it is not a necessary component for all successful marital relationships.

Question 14

Another factor contributing to a successful marriage is

Accepted Answer

Sharing spirituality, morality, and values is a key factor in a successful marriage because it provides a common ground for the couple to build their relationship on.

Question 15

Successful marriage requires

Accepted Answer

Successful marriage indeed requires a sincere desire to make the marriage work and a willingness to expend time on the relationship. Solid investments are not a necessary component for a successful marriage.

Question 16

________________points out that a marriage takes work and it takes both people to make it work.

Accepted Answer

The answer of ________________points out that a marriage takes work...

Question 17

Which is not true about meeting one another's need for love and affection?

Accepted Answer

Marital rituals are not inherently about meeting the need for love and affection; they can be about tradition, commitment, or other aspects of a relationship. Words that express warmth, appreciation, and endearment directly contribute to fulfilling the need for love and affection.

Question 18

What is true about problems in relationships?

Accepted Answer

Problems in relationships are a normal part of human interaction and do not necessarily indicate a need for counseling or legal intervention.

Question 19

Spouses whose marriages are successful

Accepted Answer

Successful marriages often involve adaptability and flexibility, allowing partners to adjust to changes and challenges together.

Question 20

When two people start to go out with one another, each seeks to discover the other's

Accepted Answer

When two people start a relationship, they often seek to understand each other's sincerity about the relationship to ensure mutual interest and commitment.

Quiz 6: Qualities of a Successful Marriage