Question 1

According to Sternberg, what differentiates romantic love from other kinds of love?

Accepted Answer

According to Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love, romantic love is characterized by the presence of both intimacy and passion, but not necessarily commitment.

Question 2

According to Sternberg, what best describes intimacy?

Accepted Answer

According to Robert Sternberg's triangular theory of love, intimacy involves feelings of closeness, connectedness, and bonding in a loving relationship. This is one of the three elements of love, along with passion and commitment. Intimacy is considered to be the foundation of a strong, healthy relationship.

Question 3

Lott and Lott found that children who were rewarded continually by their teachers came to like their classmates more than children who were not rewarded. What theory of love does this research finding reflect?

Accepted Answer

The research finding reflects the theory of behavioral reinforcement, as it suggests that reinforcing certain behaviors (such as liking classmates) can increase the likelihood of those behaviors being repeated. The children who were rewarded for liking their classmates came to like them more, while the children who were not rewarded did not form stronger opinions.

Question 4

"I feel very possessive about _____" is an example from which part of Rubin's Love Scale?

Accepted Answer

The answer of "I feel very possessive about _____" is...

Question 5

Rick and Lindsey were on the same airplane during an emergency landing. They met at the airport while waiting for another airplane. Over the next 4 months they formed a long distance relationship. Lindsey says her heart races whenever she sees Rick. What theory best exemplifies this?

Accepted Answer

Physiological arousal theory suggests that emotions are caused by the bodily responses to stimuli. In this case, Lindsey's racing heart when she sees Rick indicates her emotional response to seeing him.

Question 6

Which theory of love suggests that we are likely to become attracted to someone we think likes us?

Accepted Answer

This is the cognitive theory of love, which suggests that our thoughts and beliefs about a person (including whether or not we think they like us) can influence our attraction to them.

Question 7

What did Robert Sternberg's research propose?

Accepted Answer

Robert Sternberg's research proposed that love is made up of three different elements - intimacy, passion, and commitment - combined in different ways, leading to different types of love. This is known as the triangular theory of love.

Question 8

"I would do almost anything for her" is an example from which part of Rubin's Love Scale?

Accepted Answer

The statement "I would do almost anything for her" reflects the aspect of caring, as it indicates a willingness to go out of one's way for the well-being or happiness of the other person.

Question 9

Natasha and Jake have been dating for about 1 year. Natasha makes Jake feel good about himself. Whenever they are together he seems to feel happier and more confident. What theory does this best exemplify?

Accepted Answer

Behavioral reinforcement theory suggests that behaviors are more likely to be repeated when they are followed by positive reinforcement, such as feeling good or happy, which is what Jake experiences when he is with Natasha.

Question 10

What are the three components of attachment measure by Rubin's "Love Scale"?

Accepted Answer

Rubin's "Love Scale" measures the components of needing, caring, and trusting in romantic relationships.

Question 11

"If I could never be with ____, I would feel miserable" is an example from which part of Rubin's Love Scale?

Accepted Answer

This statement reflects the idea of needing someone in order to feel happy and fulfilled, which is a key aspect of Rubin's Needing love category.

Question 12

Which theory of love suggests that we are likely to fall in love with people whom we think have positive traits that will later be passed on to our children?

Accepted Answer

The theory of love that suggests we are likely to fall in love with people whom we think have positive traits that will later be passed on to our children is known as the Evolutionary Theory. According to this theory, we are biologically programmed to seek out mates who possess qualities that will increase the chances of our offspring's survival and success in life. This includes traits such as intelligence, good health, and physical attractiveness.

Question 13

According to research, what lovestyles identified by Lee are associated with poorer psychological health?

Accepted Answer

According to research, both Manic and ludic love styles are associated with poorer psychological health. Manic involves impulsiveness, dramatic mood swings, and dependency while ludic is seen as a more game-playing style where the individual seeks novelty and excitement over emotional attachment.

Question 14

Michelle likes to do sweet and romantic things for her partner. In fact, she will often put her partner's needs above her own. Her partner's happiness is more important than her own. According to Lee what is Michelle's love style?

Accepted Answer

Michelle's behavior aligns with the Agape love style, which is characterized by selfless love and prioritizing one's partner's needs and happiness above one's own.

Question 15

When asked to describe his relationship with his partner, Jason says he knew it was love at first sight and that he loves to close his eyes and sensethe touch and smell of his lover. According to Lee what is Jason's love style?

Accepted Answer

Jason's experience of love at first sight and focus on sensory experiences suggests an erotic love style, which prioritizes physical and sexual attraction.

Question 16

Thao thinks Nick may like him because they have made prolonged eye contact several times during class. Thao finds himself grabbing an extra soda for Nick, offering him help on his homework and spending time hanging out after class with him. As he thinks about this, he realizes he is falling for Nick. What theory does this best exemplify?

Accepted Answer

Thao's realization that he is falling for Nick suggests that this is a cognitive process, or a thought process that involves perception, interpretation, and judgement of the situation. Thao's interpretation of Nick's prolonged eye contact as a sign of potential romantic interest, as well as his actions based on this interpretation, reflects cognitive processing. In this case, Thao is likely experiencing cognitive dissonance, which occurs when there is a conflict between one's beliefs and behaviors, and is resolved through changing one's beliefs, behaviors, or both.

Question 17

According to Sternberg's love triangles, what term is used for the absence of the three building blocks of love?

Accepted Answer

Sternberg's love triangles propose that love is composed of three building blocks: passion, intimacy, and commitment. The absence of any of these elements results in nonlove, which is not considered love according to this theory. Therefore, choice C, nonlove, is the correct answer.

Question 18

Erik says "Love is a shopping list. You go through life trying to find a partner who has all of the items on your list." According to Lee what is Erik's love style?

Accepted Answer

Erik's idea of love as a shopping list where a partner must have all the desired attributes aligns with the pragma love style.

Question 19

What was one example given in the text for how a couple's score on Rubin's love scale correlates with their behavior?

Accepted Answer

The text mentions that couples who score high on Rubin's love scale are more likely to get married, while those who score low are less likely to do so. This shows a correlation between a couple's score on the love scale and their behavior in terms of commitment to each other.

Question 20

According to Sternberg's research, what is "passion"?

Accepted Answer

According to Sternberg's research, passion is sparked by physical attraction and sexual desire driving a person to pursue a romantic relationship.

Quiz 7: Love and Intimacy