Question 1

A characteristic of successful long-term romantic relationships is _________, which means showing regard or consideration for your partner, that person's point of view, and the person's rights.
A) comfortable level of closeness
B) mutual respect
C) presence of a shared plan or life vision
D) managing life transitions

Accepted Answer

Mutual respect is crucial in maintaining a healthy and happy long-term romantic relationship. It involves valuing your partner's thoughts, feelings, and individuality, and treating them with consideration and care. Without mutual respect, couples may struggle with communication, trust, and intimacy issues. Comfortable level of closeness, presence of a shared plan or life vision, and managing life transitions are also important factors, but they are not as fundamental as mutual respect.

Question 2

Exchanging messages or behaving in ways that keep a relationship at a desired level of intimacy, satisfaction, and health is known as ________.
A) integrating social networks
B) continuing self-disclosure
C) expressing assurance
D) relational maintenance

Accepted Answer

Relational maintenance refers to the ways individuals engage in communication or behaviors to sustain and enhance their relationship. It involves exchanging messages or behaving in ways that keep a relationship at a desired level of intimacy, satisfaction, and health. Choice A, integrating social networks, refers to the process of bringing together different social groups or networks. Continuing self-disclosure, as mentioned in choice B, is a part of relational maintenance, but it is not the only aspect. Expression of assurance, as stated in choice C, involves diminishing a partner's doubts and uncertainties in the relationship, but it is not the same as relational maintenance as a whole.

Question 3

Routine relational maintenance happens ________.
A) when messages and behaviors are deliberately performed in order to maintain the level of intimacy in the relationship
B) when verbal messages and behaviors contradict the nonverbal cues in the relationship
C) when messages and behavior that are performed without any deliberate intention to affect the relationship have the effect of preserving the intimacy
D) when one partner's messages and behaviors exhibit control over the other partner

Accepted Answer

Routine relational maintenance occurs when actions and behaviors, performed without deliberate intention, help maintain the intimacy in a relationship.

Question 4

Lack of confidence in the relationship itself is ________.
A) life transition
B) interference
C) relational turbulence theory
D) relational uncertainty

Accepted Answer

Lack of confidence in the relationship itself is a form of relational uncertainty, which refers to the doubts and questions individuals have about their relationship and its future.

Question 5

Mindy and Rhianna have conversations where they plan activities together, call each other "BFF" when talking with others, and share deeply personal information with each other. Mindy and Rhianna are having ________.
A) small talk
B) family attachments
C) intimate interactions
D) life transitions

Accepted Answer

Mindy and Rhianna are engaging in behaviors typical of intimate interactions, such as planning activities together, using terms of endearment (BFF), and sharing personal information.

Question 6

Close male relationships are often characterized by ________.
A) sexual intimacy
B) covert intimacy
C) overt intimacy
D) no intimacy at all

Accepted Answer

Close male relationships often exhibit covert intimacy, where emotional closeness and bonds are present but not always openly expressed or visible in traditional, overt ways. This can include deep friendships where feelings are shared through actions or in private rather than public declarations of affection.

Question 7

Same-sex female conversations tend to be ________.
A) personal
B) about feelings
C) emotionally supportive
D) all of the above

Accepted Answer

Same-sex female conversations tend to be personal, discussing feelings and emotions while being emotionally supportive. Therefore, all options A, B, and C are correct.

Question 8

When couples are concerned about the distribution of responsibilities, the goal should be to achieve a(n) ________ relationship, where partners agree to what each will contribute to their shared life and that their individual contributions are equally valued.
A) affectionate
B) long-term
C) egalitarian
D) inclusive

Accepted Answer

An egalitarian relationship is one in which there is equal sharing of responsibilities and power between partners. This allows for a more balanced and fair relationship where both partners feel valued and respected. It can be beneficial for long-term relationships and create a foundation for a strong and affectionate bond. Being inclusive is important in any relationship, but it does not address the issue of the distribution of responsibilities as directly as an egalitarian approach.

Question 9

Mike has taken a job that requires extensive travel, leaving his wife Janie to assume more household responsibilities. They may experience ________, when one partner's actions or choices create obstacles for the other.
A) transitional turbulence
B) relational uncertainty
C) interference
D) egalitarian distribution

Accepted Answer

Interference refers to situations in which one partner's actions or choices create obstacles or challenges for the other partner. In this scenario, Mike's extensive travel may interfere with Janie's ability to manage household responsibilities and create challenges in their relationship. Transitional turbulence and relational uncertainty may also be relevant, but they do not specifically capture the impact of one partner's actions on the other. Egalitarian distribution, on the other hand, refers to the equitable distribution of household responsibilities, which may be relevant in this scenario but does not capture the potential obstacles created by Mike's travel.

Question 10

Research indicates that, in marriages and other long-term romantic relationships, sexual satisfaction is closely connected with ________.
A) relationship satisfaction
B) commitment
C) love
D) all of the above

Accepted Answer

Research has shown that sexual satisfaction is closely connected with relationship satisfaction, commitment, and love in long-term romantic relationships. Partners who are more committed and feel more love for each other tend to have higher levels of sexual satisfaction, which in turn enhances the overall quality of the relationship. Therefore, all of the above options are important factors in determining sexual satisfaction in long-term romantic relationships.

Question 11

"Hey, Heather, my co-worker David is throwing a tailgate party before the game, and I'd love for you to come with me to meet my co-workers." Including your partner in interactions with one's colleagues, friends, and family is known as _________.
A) integrating social networks
B) expressing assurance
C) routine relational maintenance
D) promoting intimate interactions

Accepted Answer

Integrating social networks refers to including one's partner in social interactions with their colleagues, friends, and family. This is demonstrated in the example statement where the speaker invites their partner to a tailgate party with their co-worker. Choice B, expressing assurance, refers to reassuring one's partner about their relationship or their partner's capabilities, which is not demonstrated in the example statement. Choice C, routine relational maintenance, refers to engaging in behaviors that maintain a relationship, such as expressing affection or discussing relationship issues, which is also not demonstrated in the example statement. Choice D, promoting intimate interactions, refers to behaviors that enhance intimacy, such as sharing personal thoughts or feelings, which is not demonstrated in the example statement.

Question 12

Partners in long-term romantic relationships experience ________ when they are satisfied with the amount and quality of their romantic encounters, affection displays, and time they spend together.
A) presence of a shared plan or life vision
B) comfortable level of closeness
C) mutual respect
D) strategic relational maintenance

Accepted Answer

Comfortable level of closeness refers to the feeling of being close and connected to one's partner, which is associated with satisfaction in long-term romantic relationships. The other options - presence of a shared plan or life vision, mutual respect, and strategic relational maintenance - may also contribute to relationship satisfaction, but they are not specific to the experience of closeness.

Question 13

Self-concept formation, recognition and support, and a model of communication behaviors are all functions of ________.
A) the family
B) friendship networks
C) marriage
D) interpersonal cross-sex relationships

Accepted Answer

Self-concept formation, recognition and support, and a model of communication behaviors are all functions of the family. The family plays a crucial role in shaping an individual's perception of themselves and their communication behaviors through interactions, modeling, and feedback.

Question 14

To effectively praise your partner and demonstrate your gratitude when you notice something for which you are grateful, you must _________.
A) give a general phrase such as "thanks" and nothing more
B) explain why the action makes you grateful
C) speak in general, simple phrases without worrying about feelings
D) express your gratitude and then change the subject immediately

Accepted Answer

Explaining why the action makes you grateful shows that you are sincere in your praise and helps your partner understand what specifically they did that you appreciate. This can make them feel valued and recognized.

Question 15

_________ tells us that parents who use destructive conflict strategies with each other such as counter-blaming and cross-complaining teach their children that this is how to handle conflict.
A) Conversation orientation
B) Permissive parenting style
C) Modeling
D) Low conformity orientation

Accepted Answer

Modeling refers to the idea that parents serve as role models to their children and their behavior teaches their children how to act in certain situations. In this scenario, if parents use destructive conflict strategies, their children may learn that this is an appropriate way to handle conflict. Options A, B, and D are not directly related to this concept.

Question 16

A new development in friendships is ____________, friendships that have a sexual component but are not intended to be romantic.
A) short-term romantic relationships
B) friends with benefits relationships
C) covert intimacy
D) cross-platonic relationships

Accepted Answer

The term "friends with benefits" refers to a type of friendship where there is a sexual component, but the individuals involved do not intend to pursue a romantic relationship. These relationships can be short-term or long-term, but they generally involve a level of emotional intimacy that is not present in casual sexual encounters or hook-ups.

Question 17

Often lasting from infancy to old age, ________ relationships can span more time than any other family relationship.
A) sibling
B) parent-child
C) intergenerational
D) long-term romantic

Accepted Answer

Sibling relationships often last from infancy to old age, making them the longest enduring family relationships for many individuals.

Question 18

Friendships are unlikely to develop if neither partner is adept at beginning enjoyable conversation. This process is ________.
A) responsiveness
B) initiation
C) self-disclosure
D) emotional support

Accepted Answer

Initiation is the act of starting a conversation or interaction. Without someone initiating conversation, friendships are unlikely to develop, as communication is a vital component of any relationship.

Question 19

_____, an emotional reaction to the belief you might lose a valued relationship to a third party, is one of the major destructive forces within relationships.
A) Possessiveness
B) Stereotyping
C) Jealousy
D) Loathing

Accepted Answer

Jealousy is the emotional reaction to the belief that a valued relationship may be lost to a third party. It can often lead to possessive behavior and ultimately damage the relationship. Stereotyping and loathing are not related to this situation.

Question 20

The desire to control another person to ensure that he or she is one's exclusive partner is _________.
A) possessiveness
B) relational jealousy
C) covert intimacy
D) infidelity

Accepted Answer

Possessiveness refers to the desire to control another person and ensure that they belong solely to oneself. This can manifest in relationships as controlling behavior, jealousy, and an unwillingness to share one's partner with others.

Quiz 12: Communicating in Intimate Relationships: Long-Term Romantic Relationships, Family, and Friends

A characteristic of successful long-term romantic relationships is _________, which means showing regard or consideration for your partner, that person's point of view, and the person's rights.

Exchanging messages or behaving in ways that keep a relationship at a desired level of intimacy, satisfaction, and health is known as ________.

Routine relational maintenance happens ________.

Lack of confidence in the relationship itself is ________.

Mindy and Rhianna have conversations where they plan activities together, call each other "BFF" when talking with others, and share deeply personal information with each other. Mindy and Rhianna are having ________.

Close male relationships are often characterized by ________.

Same-sex female conversations tend to be ________.

When couples are concerned about the distribution of responsibilities, the goal should be to achieve a(n) ________ relationship, where partners agree to what each will contribute to their shared life and that their individual contributions are equally valued.

Mike has taken a job that requires extensive travel, leaving his wife Janie to assume more household responsibilities. They may experience ________, when one partner's actions or choices create obstacles for the other.

Research indicates that, in marriages and other long-term romantic relationships, sexual satisfaction is closely connected with ________.

"Hey, Heather, my co-worker David is throwing a tailgate party before the game, and I'd love for you to come with me to meet my co-workers." Including your partner in interactions with one's colleagues, friends, and family is known as _________.

Partners in long-term romantic relationships experience ________ when they are satisfied with the amount and quality of their romantic encounters, affection displays, and time they spend together.

Self-concept formation, recognition and support, and a model of communication behaviors are all functions of ________.

To effectively praise your partner and demonstrate your gratitude when you notice something for which you are grateful, you must _________.

_________ tells us that parents who use destructive conflict strategies with each other such as counter-blaming and cross-complaining teach their children that this is how to handle conflict.

A new development in friendships is ____________, friendships that have a sexual component but are not intended to be romantic.

Often lasting from infancy to old age, ________ relationships can span more time than any other family relationship.

Friendships are unlikely to develop if neither partner is adept at beginning enjoyable conversation. This process is ________.

_____, an emotional reaction to the belief you might lose a valued relationship to a third party, is one of the major destructive forces within relationships.

The desire to control another person to ensure that he or she is one's exclusive partner is _________.