Charlie and Charlotte are learning to ski. Every time she falls, Charlotte says, "This is the most humiliating experience I've ever had! Everyone is watching me behave like a clumsy dolt!" When Charlie falls, he says, "Well, that sure isn't the way to turn on these things. I'd better try another way." Why is Charlotte more likely than Charlie to give up?
A) She is focusing on performance.
B) She actually is clumsy.
C) She is focusing on mastery.
D) She is less competent at skiing.

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Charlotte is focused on how she is performing and seeking external approval, while Charlie is focused on improving and mastering the skill. This focus on performance can lead to feelings of helplessness and a higher likelihood of giving up.

Charlie and Charlotte Are Learning to Ski