Question 1

_____________ is an idealized attraction toward a loved one.
A)Infatuation
B)Passion
C)Intimacy
D)Commitment

Accepted Answer

Infatuation is often characterized by an idealized attraction toward a loved one, where the feelings are intense but may not be based on a deep understanding or long-term commitment.

Question 2

A common issue that can hurt a relationship is expecting
A)your partner to change.
B)that your partner loves you.
C)physical and emotional intimacy.
D)that you can trust your partner.

Accepted Answer

Expecting your partner to change is a common issue that can lead to frustration and disappointment in a relationship. It's important to accept your partner as they are and work together to compromise and communicate effectively. Expecting change without communication and mutual effort can only lead to resentment and distance in the relationship.

Question 3

______________ includes the activities,abilities,and characteristics that our culture has deemed appropriate for us based on whether we are male or female.
A)Gender identity
B)Sexual identity
C)Sexual orientation
D)Gender role

Accepted Answer

Gender role includes the activities, abilities, and characteristics that our culture has deemed appropriate for us based on whether we are male or female. Gender identity refers to our internal sense of being male, female or non-binary, while sexual identity refers to our sexual attraction or interest towards others. Sexual orientation refers to who we are attracted to or have a romantic relationship with.

Question 4

Real friends
A)can be tense and unhappy with each other.
B)do not share each other's difficulties.
C)do not have to show respect for each other.
D)include passion in their relationship.

Accepted Answer

Real friends can have disagreements and may experience tension, but they work through it and remain loyal to each other. Sharing difficulties and showing respect for each other are important qualities of a true friendship. However, passion is not necessarily a requirement for a genuine friendship.

Question 5

__________ is NOT a sign of an unhealthy relationship.
A)Physical or emotional abuse
B)Conflict
C)Codependency
D)Communicative withdrawal

Accepted Answer

Conflict is a natural part of any relationship and does not necessarily indicate that the relationship is unhealthy. In fact, healthy relationships can involve productive conflict resolution and communication skills. The other options - physical or emotional abuse, codependency, and communicative withdrawal - are all signs of an unhealthy relationship.

Question 6

Jealousy is
A)proof that love exists.
B)a harmless emotion.
C)a measure of insecurity.
D)unrelated to self-esteem.

Accepted Answer

Jealousy is often a measure of insecurity and can stem from a lack of trust in oneself or in one's relationship. It can also lead to negative behaviors and actions that can harm both the jealous person and their partner. While it is normal to feel some jealousy at times, it is important to address its root causes and work on building trust and self-confidence.

Question 7

Emotional intelligence includes
A)responding impulsively to feelings.
B)responding reactively to feelings.
C)recognizing feelings as they occur.
D)rejecting all emotional support.

Accepted Answer

Emotional intelligence involves being able to recognize and understand our own emotions, as well as the emotions of others. Responding impulsively or reactively to feelings can indicate a lack of emotional intelligence. Rejecting emotional support can also indicate a lack of emotional intelligence as it involves not being able to effectively manage and express one's own emotions. Therefore, recognizing feelings as they occur is the best choice for reflecting emotional intelligence.

Question 8

Reciprocity refers to
A)give-and-take between friends.
B)mutual respect.
C)over-dependence.
D)sexual desire.

Accepted Answer

Reciprocity refers to the principle of giving and taking in relationships, particularly in friendships. It involves a balance of both parties contributing and receiving support, favors, and other forms of exchange. It is not necessarily related to sexual desire, over-dependence, or mutual respect, although these factors may play a role in certain situations.

Question 9

A successful relationship has proven to improve an individual's
A)physical strength.
B)ability to feel secure.
C)professional status.
D)earning power.

Accepted Answer

A successful relationship can provide an individual with emotional support and a sense of security, which can improve their overall well-being and happiness. It may not have a direct impact on physical strength, professional status, or earning power.

Question 10

The element that is LEAST characteristic of enduring love relationships is
A)pursuit of common goals.
B)closeness to each other.
C)absorption in each other.
D)promise of a shared future.

Accepted Answer

While closeness and shared goals/future are important aspects of enduring love relationships, absorption in each other can be a sign of codependency rather than a healthy relationship. Healthy relationships allow for individuality and independence while also maintaining closeness and shared goals.

Question 11

The transformation of love progresses in the following way:
A)high levels of passion,increasing intimacy,diminished romance,emergence of enduring love.
B)high levels of passion,increasing intimacy,diminished romance,break up of relationship.
C)high levels of passion,diminished romance,emergence of enduring love,break up of relationship.
D)either high levels of passion,increasing intimacy,diminished romance,emergence of enduring love or high levels of passion,increasing intimacy,diminished romance,break up of relationship.

Accepted Answer

The transformation of love can lead to either enduring love or a breakup, following the initial stages of passion and intimacy.

Question 12

The first relationships people form outside their families are
A)friendships.
B)professional relationships.
C)love relationships.
D)dependent relationships.

Accepted Answer

Friendships are typically the first relationships people form outside of their families. It is through friendships that individuals learn to relate to others, develop social skills, and establish a sense of belonging in their communities. While professional and love relationships are also important, they typically develop later in life after individuals have begun to establish their identities through friendships. Dependent relationships, on the other hand, are not necessarily the first relationships people form outside of their families, as they may develop later in life as a result of illness, disability, or other circumstances.

Question 13

Mindfulness can be cultivated by
A)speeding up our thought process.
B)planning and thinking ahead.
C)concentrating on multiple tasks.
D)maximizing awareness of ourselves.

Accepted Answer

Mindfulness involves being fully present and aware of our thoughts, feelings, and surroundings in the present moment. Maximizing awareness of ourselves is therefore the best option for cultivating mindfulness. Speeding up our thought process, planning and thinking ahead, and concentrating on multiple tasks may be counterproductive to mindfulness as they can lead to distraction and an inability to focus on the present moment.

Question 14

The roots of our identity and sense of self are found in our
A)childhood.
B)peer group.
C)profession.
D)community.

Accepted Answer

Childhood experiences shape our early beliefs, attitudes, and values, which form the foundation of our identity and sense of self. This is because childhood is a critical period for brain development and socialization, and our interactions with family members, caregivers, and peers during this time have a profound impact on our self-concept and worldview. While our identity may evolve over time and be influenced by other factors such as our peer group, profession, and community, our early experiences and relationships are fundamental to who we are.

Question 15

Intimate partnerships differ from friendships in that intimate partnerships
A)do not require exclusiveness.
B)are more accepting and less critical.
C)are more stable and enduring over time.
D)include the presence of sexual desire.

Accepted Answer

Intimate partnerships involve sexual desire, which is not present in friendships. While friendships may provide acceptance and stability, they do not have the same level of emotional and physical intimacy that is found in intimate partnerships.

Question 16

Characteristics of friendships include all of the following EXCEPT
A)respect.
B)trust.
C)dependence.
D)loyalty.

Accepted Answer

Dependence is not a characteristic of healthy friendships. Friendships should be based on mutual respect, trust, and loyalty, but they should not involve dependence or enabling behaviors. Healthy friendships should allow each individual to maintain their independence while still supporting each other.

Question 17

The most long-lasting element of love is
A)euphoriA.
B)preoccupation with the loved one.
C)commitment.
D)idealization of the loved one.

Accepted Answer

While euphoria, preoccupation, and idealization may occur at the beginning of a relationship, these feelings often fade over time. Commitment, on the other hand, is a conscious decision to stay dedicated to one's partner despite challenges or difficulties. This level of dedication and devotion is what creates a long-lasting, enduring love.

Question 18

Anxious/avoidant relationships with parents may produce children who,when they reach adulthood,
A)find it easy to establish relationships.
B)are satisfied living a solitary lifestyle.
C)tend to stay married to the same person for a lifetime.
D)are inclined to run from relationships.

Accepted Answer

Anxious/avoidant attachment styles with parents often result in individuals who have difficulty forming or maintaining close relationships. They may have a fear of intimacy or feel as though they cannot depend on others. This can lead them to avoid relationships altogether or to run from them when they become too close. Therefore, option D is the best answer.

Question 19

Which of the following is NOT a characteristic of commitment?
A)responsibility
B)passion
C)reliability
D)faithfulness

Accepted Answer

Passion is often associated with commitment and is a positive attribute, unlike the other options which are commonly considered characteristics of commitment.

Question 20

Friendships usually include all of the following characteristics EXCEPT
A)companionship.
B)mutual acceptance.
C)reciprocity.
D)sexual passion.

Accepted Answer

Sexual passion is a characteristic of romantic relationships, not friendships.

Quiz 4: Intimate Relationships and Communication

_____________ is an idealized attraction toward a loved one.

A common issue that can hurt a relationship is expecting

______________ includes the activities,abilities,and characteristics that our culture has deemed appropriate for us based on whether we are male or female.

Real friends

__________ is NOT a sign of an unhealthy relationship.

Jealousy is

Emotional intelligence includes

Reciprocity refers to

A successful relationship has proven to improve an individual's

The element that is LEAST characteristic of enduring love relationships is

The transformation of love progresses in the following way:

The first relationships people form outside their families are

Mindfulness can be cultivated by

The roots of our identity and sense of self are found in our

Intimate partnerships differ from friendships in that intimate partnerships

Characteristics of friendships include all of the following EXCEPT

The most long-lasting element of love is

Anxious/avoidant relationships with parents may produce children who,when they reach adulthood,

Which of the following is NOT a characteristic of commitment?

Friendships usually include all of the following characteristics EXCEPT