Question 1

If you begin complaining to your partner, start talking about problems, goals, and commitment in the relationship with him/her, Duck suggests you are in this phase:

Accepted Answer

The Dyadic phase is characterized by open communication about issues, problems, goals, and commitment in the relationship. It is the stage where partners engage in direct communication and problem-solving. The other options do not fit the given scenario. The Intrapsychic phase is characterized by internal reflection and assessment of the relationship by the individual partner. The Social process phase involves presenting a united front to the social world, while the Grave-dressing phase is focused on coming to terms with the end of the relationship.

Question 2

"Did I do the right thing?" "Do you think I should believe what this person says?" or even "Should I take this job?" are examples of:

Accepted Answer

The answer of "Did I do the right thing?" "Do...

Question 3

"Great job!" "I love your outfit!" "You did well on the test-and you are making great comments in class. You are obviously a good learner" are examples of:

Accepted Answer

All of these statements provide reassurance of our worth and value, but specifically, they are giving positive feedback on a task or personal attribute.

Question 4

If you are out of the relationship but begin trying to 'make sense' of it, telling different versions of the breakup until you find one that is satisfactory and helps you save face, Duck suggests you are in this phase:

Accepted Answer

This is the Grave-dressing phase in which one tries to create a coherent story of the breakup that is acceptable to oneself and others.

Question 5

When you tell other people in the network about the relationship problem, seeking either their help to keep the relationship together or their support for your version of why it has come apart, you are experiencing which process of breakup?

Accepted Answer

Seeking help or support from other people in the network is part of the social process of breakup, where individuals turn to their social network for support, validation, and advice during the breakup. A dyadic process involves the communication and negotiation between the two partners in the relationship, while an intrapsychic process involves individual reflection and evaluation of the relationship. The grave-dressing process is the final stage of the breakup, where individuals create a narrative and closure for the relationship.

Question 6

Duck's Relationship Filtering Model suggests that you use others' physical appearance to do the following:

Accepted Answer

Duck's Relationship Filtering Model suggests that physical appearance is one of the initial filters used in determining potential relationship partners, based on the assumption that appearance can give clues to someone's personality or worldview.

Question 7

Introspective RCCUs would be most likely to:

Accepted Answer

Introspective RCCUs (Relationship Closure Communication Units) are statements made by individuals indicating their desire to end a relationship. In this case, the statement indicates that one partner is physically absent from the relationship, which could be a sign of a breakdown in the relationship or a desire to end it. The other options (B, C, and D) do not necessarily indicate a desire to end the relationship.

Question 8

If you begin talking to other people about whether or not you should break up with a romantic partner, blame your partner for problems, and look for support from friends, Duck suggests you are in this phase:

Accepted Answer

The social process phase is characterized by seeking support from friends and talking to others about the relationship problems. Blaming the partner for the problems is also an aspect of this phase. Thus, option C is the correct answer. Intrapsychic phase involves individual reflection and evaluation of the relationship, dyadic phase involves communication between partners to resolve issues, and grave-dressing phase involves closure and moving on from the relationship.

Question 9

According to Duck's Relationship Filtering Model, people pay attention to cues about others in the following sequence:

Accepted Answer

Duck's Relationship Filtering Model suggests that when we meet someone, the first thing we notice is their physical appearance. Then, we pay attention to their behavior and nonverbal communication (NVC), followed by their roles in society, and finally, their attitudes and personality. This sequence reflects the process of gradually getting to know someone more deeply over time.

Question 10

One reason why researchers have assumed that relationships follow predictable stages could be:

Accepted Answer

Many researchers have relied on retrospective reports from individuals to understand relationships, and these reports may attempt to "make sense" of the relationship by identifying stages or patterns. However, this may not necessarily reflect the true nature of all relationships, as every individual and relationship is unique. Therefore, assuming that relationships follow predictable stages may be a result of relying too heavily on retrospective reports.

Question 11

If you are considering breaking up with a romantic partner but have not discussed it out loud with anyone, Duck suggests you are in this phase of relational dissolution:

Accepted Answer

The intrapsychic phase is characterized by an individual's own private contemplation of the benefits and costs of staying in a relationship. If the person has not discussed their thoughts with anyone, they are likely in this phase.

Question 12

Baxter and Montgomery's idea of the autonomy-connectedness dialectic explains:

Accepted Answer

The autonomy-connectedness dialectic explains that individuals experience a tension or struggle between their desire for independence and their desire for connection with others. This suggests that individuals may experience conflict when trying to balance their need for autonomy with their need for relationships and social connections.

Question 13

Retrospective RCCUs would be most likely to:

Accepted Answer

Retrospective RCCUs (Relationship Contingent Life Events) refer to life events that have already occurred and that had consequences for the romantic relationship. The term "retrospective" indicates that the events happened in the past. In this context, RCCUs would most likely indicate that one partner has returned to the relationship, as this would be a significant event that could affect the dynamics and functioning of the relationship. The other options are less likely or do not fit the definition of retrospective RCCUs.

Question 14

Wiseman's idea of the bond/bind dilemma explains:

Accepted Answer

Wiseman's bond/bind dilemma explains that relationships require some limits on our freedom. In other words, we are bound to our partner in some ways and may need to sacrifice some of our individual independence in order to maintain the relationship. This does not mean giving up everything, as option B suggests, nor does it imply that relationships are not worth the benefits, as option C suggests. Option A is also incorrect, as a healthy relationship does require some degree of compromise and sacrifice.

Question 15

The fact that you like to feel that someone is "there" for you is an examples of:

Accepted Answer

The desire to have someone be "there" for you indicates a need for belonging and a sense of reliable alliance, as you want to feel connected and supported by others.

Question 16

If you begin preparing for new relationships after a breakup is over, defining what you do and don't want in the future, Duck suggests you are in this phase:

Accepted Answer

The "resurrection" phase, as described by Duck, involves preparing for new relationships after a breakup by reflecting on what one wants and does not want in future relationships. This phase is about personal growth and looking forward to new beginnings.

Quiz 6: Talk and Interpersonal Relationships