Question 1

According to the chapter, which of the following is never inappropriate?

Accepted Answer

Feeling what one feels is a natural and unavoidable part of human experience, and thus it is never inappropriate. It's an internal process that doesn't inherently harm others or oneself.

Question 2

An important aspect of socialization is helping children recognize, accept, sort out, identify, label, integrate, express, and cope with which of the following?

Accepted Answer

Socialization helps children recognize, accept, sort out, identify, label, integrate, express, and cope with their emotions. While socialization may also assist in developing an understanding of behaviors, satisfaction, and perspective, emotions play a significant role in shaping how children interact with the world around them.

Question 3

What is the function of a cultural script?

Accepted Answer

A cultural script provides guidelines for appropriate behavior, including emotional expression, within a given cultural context. It can help individuals understand and navigate social situations by outlining what is socially acceptable or taboo.

Question 4

How does playing pretend help children cope with feelings?

Accepted Answer

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Question 5

Which of the following best describes Susan Isaacs's advice to parents about teaching children healthy expressions of feelings?

Accepted Answer

Susan Isaacs's advice emphasizes the importance of allowing children to express a range of emotions while teaching them appropriate ways to do it. This involves being patient with children's behaviors, understanding that outbursts and obstinacy are a natural part of learning emotional control, and modeling healthy expressions of feelings for children to follow.

Question 6

How can adults help children cope with fears?

Accepted Answer

By linking up a brave, gentle, outgoing child with one who is fearful, the fearful child can learn from the other child's behavior and become less afraid. This can help them see that their fears are conquerable and that they are not alone in feeling afraid.

Answer: D 
 Refusing to label the feeling can help children understand that fear is a normal human emotion and that it is okay to feel afraid sometimes. This can prevent them from feeling ashamed or embarrassed about their fears and can encourage them to talk about their feelings with adults or peers who can help them cope.

Option B is not the best choice because telling a child not to be afraid does not acknowledge or address their fear, which can make them feel unheard and unsupported. Option C is not the best choice because disregarding a child's feelings can be dismissive and damaging to their emotional well-being.

Question 7

Shea got mad at his teacher and yelled, "I hate you!" Which of the following is an example of Shea's teacher redirecting his angry feelings?

Accepted Answer

By acknowledging Shea's feelings and reflecting them back to him, Shea's teacher is redirecting his angry feelings in a more productive way, rather than just shutting down the expression of those feelings (options A and B) or punishing him (option D).

Question 8

Which of the following is a way adults can help children deal with fears?

Accepted Answer

Helping children play out their fears can be a useful tool in helping them cope and process through their emotions. It allows them to express their fear in a safe and controlled environment. Ignoring fears or not taking them seriously can lead to increased anxiety and avoidance behavior, while forcing a child to confront their fear may be traumatic and ineffective.

Question 9

What are the characteristics of an authoritative parent?

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Question 10

A kindergarten teacher said, ""I see how angry you are." "It really makes you mad when she grabs your doll!" Which of the following did the teacher demonstrate?

Accepted Answer

The teacher labeled the child's feeling of anger and acknowledged it, which demonstrates accepting and labeling the feeling.

Question 11

Simultaneous feelings include all of the following, except

Accepted Answer

The passage states that simultaneous feelings can be difficult for children because they can only focus on one feeling at a time, and that adults may verbalize these feelings to help children cope. It does not state that simultaneous feelings are easy for children to deal with and explain.

Question 12

Three of the following are examples of ways of expressing feelings that are acceptable to some adults and not to others. Which one does not belong?

Accepted Answer

Stating negative wishes or imagining violent happenings is not an acceptable way of expressing feelings for most adults, as it can lead to harmful actions or create a negative atmosphere. Yelling and screaming, taking out anger symbolically, and even sometimes using mild obscenities are considered more acceptable ways of expressing feelings. However, name-calling and using harsh obscenities are generally seen as disrespectful and inappropriate ways of expressing oneself.

Question 13

Charlie fell while running on the playground. He looks up towards the nearest adult. In regards to social referencing, which teacher response helps Charlie decide for himself how to react?

Accepted Answer

Option B involves asking Charlie how he is feeling, which allows him to make his own decision about how to react. Option A assumes that Charlie is okay and does not give him the chance to express his feelings. Option C involves gender stereotypes and option D does not involve acknowledging Charlie's feelings.

Question 14

A young child sucking on his/her thumb is an example of what?

Accepted Answer

A young child sucking on his/her thumb is a common way for them to self-soothe and comfort themselves, especially when they are tired, anxious or upset. It is a natural and normal behavior for young children and does not necessarily mean the child needs a pacifier or food.

Question 15

Which of the following best describes social referencing?

Accepted Answer

Social referencing is when children look to adults for cues on how to react in a new or uncertain situation. Adults can use this as an opportunity to calm children's fears or warn them of potential dangers, making it a helpful tool for child development.

Question 16

What are the characteristics of a permissive parent?

Accepted Answer

Permissive parents are known for taking on the role of friends and guides rather than authoritative figures. They place few limits and controls on their children and are often seen as indulgent and lenient. This parenting style can sometimes result in children who struggle with boundaries and have difficulty learning self-discipline.

Question 17

How can adults help children cope with anger?

Accepted Answer

Helping children learn to work through their anger is important for their emotional development. Adults can help by teaching children coping strategies, such as deep breathing, talking to someone about how they feel, or engaging in physical activity. By guiding children through their anger, they can learn to manage their emotions in a healthy way.

Question 18

When children are sad or angry, why do some adults react strongly?

Accepted Answer

Some adults may react strongly to a child's sadness or anger because the child's emotions may trigger unresolved pain or anger inside the adult. This is often due to unhealed emotional wounds from the adult's own childhood or life experiences.

Question 19

When two people disagree about how feelings should be expressed, what is important for each person to consider?

Accepted Answer

When two people disagree about how feelings should be expressed, it's important for each person to consider both perspectives. This means not only thinking about their own feelings and opinions, but also being open to listening and understanding the other person's feelings and opinions as well. It's not about who is right or wrong or trying to prove a point, but rather about finding a way to communicate effectively and respectfully with each other. It's also not about trying to force the other person to change their mind, but rather about finding common ground and compromise.

Question 20

Which of the following is not one of the ways to help children cope with feelings?

Accepted Answer

Rewarding is not a way to help children cope with feelings. The other three options, relaxation, self-calming, and playing pretend, are all strategies that can help children manage and cope with their emotions. Rewarding may be used as positive reinforcement for good behavior, but it is not directly related to helping children cope with feelings.

Quiz 9: Working With Families on Addressing Feelings and Problem Solving