Question 1

In essence,we forgive others for a failure event when __________.

Accepted Answer

We forgive others for a failure event when it is in our own best interest to do so. This can include reducing our own negative emotions such as anger, resentment, and bitterness, improving our relationships with others, and promoting our own emotional and spiritual growth. While retaliation attempts failing or cultural norms may influence forgiveness, they are not the primary reasons why we forgive others. Physical separation may also make forgiveness easier, but it is not a necessary condition for forgiveness to occur.

Question 2

Which strategy for delivering bad news involves using messages that are honest and straightforward?

Accepted Answer

The direct strategy involves using messages that are honest and straightforward. This approach is recommended when the bad news is not too devastating and the goal is to communicate the message clearly and without ambiguity.

Question 3

What term is used to describe an incident marked by the breaking or violating of a relational understanding or agreement?

Accepted Answer

Transgression is the term used to describe an incident in which a relational understanding or agreement is broken or violated. Reproach means to express disapproval or disappointment, account refers to a statement of financial transactions, and reconciliation means restoring a relationship or friendship after a disagreement. None of these terms specifically relate to the breaking or violating of a relational agreement.

Question 4

Lilah cried when Elmer said he thought she was "spoiled brat." Lilah's response to this hurtful comment is a(n)__________ response.

Accepted Answer

Lilah's crying in response to being called a "spoiled brat" is an acquiescent response, as it shows she is accepting or yielding to the hurtful comment emotionally.

Question 5

When Madelina accuses Joel of cheating on her,Joel admits that he did go out with someone else,but only to help her through a difficult time.He then reassures Madelina that he is still in love with her and tells her not to worry.How would Joel's account most appropriately be labeled?

Accepted Answer

Joel is providing a justification for his actions by explaining that he only went out with someone else to help them and that he still loves Madelina. He is not making excuses or giving an absence of an account, and he is not reproaching Madelina.

Question 6

After reviewing the cardiograph,Dr.Polinska knew that Trevor's heart was failing.While it will be difficult to deliver such bad news,Dr.Polinska plans to make Trevor feel more in control by allowing him to choose from three different treatment plans.Dr.Polinska is using which strategy to deliver bad news?

Accepted Answer

Dr. Polinska is using an empowerment strategy by allowing Trevor to choose from three different treatment plans to make him feel more in control of his situation.

Question 7

According to relationship researchers Laura Guerrero and Guy Bachman,which type of response will most likely be used after a severe offense in a negative or unsatisfying relationship?

Accepted Answer

In a negative or unsatisfying relationship, the most likely response after a severe offense is a retaliatory response. This means that a person may seek revenge, seek to hurt their partner back, or withdraw from the relationship. This type of response can escalate conflict and lead to a further deteriorating of the relationship, rather than resolving issues.

Question 8

In a recent study,grieving adolescents were asked to evaluate different kinds of support statements.Among the highest rated were __________.

Accepted Answer

Expressions of willingness to listen were among the highest rated support statements according to the study.

Question 9

The MUM effect is characterized by __________.

Accepted Answer

The MUM effect is characterized by people being reluctant to share bad news.

Question 10

Laughing as a reaction to a hurtful comment made by another person constitutes a(n)__________ response.

Accepted Answer

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Question 11

Due to perceived partner __________,some people feel that their partner is the only person who can meet their relational needs,and are less likely to end the relationship even after severe transgressions.

Accepted Answer

Perceived partner uniqueness refers to the belief that one's partner is irreplaceable and uniquely capable of fulfilling one's relational needs. This perception can make individuals more tolerant of their partner's faults or mistakes, as they believe no one else could meet their needs in the same way.

Question 12

When Carlos lies about how much money he makes at his new job because he's embarrassed about it,his reason for lying is best described as __________.

Accepted Answer

Carlos' reason for lying is to protect his self-image. He is embarrassed about how much money he makes and feels that revealing the truth would make him look bad.

Question 13

Trini spilled red wine all over Monica's favorite book.When she asked for forgiveness,Monica replied,"You'll be forgiven when you buy me a replacement book." Which strategy for granting forgiveness did Monica use?

Accepted Answer

Monica used a conditional strategy for granting forgiveness by stating the condition of buying a replacement book before being forgiven.

Question 14

Which statement about relationships that challenge social norms is true?

Accepted Answer

Gay and straight couples engage in similar relational maintenance activities, such as open communication, understanding, and support, to sustain their relationships. This reflects the universal aspects of maintaining a healthy relationship, regardless of the sexual orientation of the partners.

Question 15

Sandro always avoids talking about his past,in large part because he spent some time in prison.When his fiancée finds out,she is horrified and calls him a liar.Sandro's lie could be best classified as a __________.

Accepted Answer

Sandro's lie is classified as a lie by omission because he deliberately chose not to disclose information about his past to his fiancée.

Question 16

Hal accused his coworker of stealing his Star Wars coffee mug.Hal's accusation is also referred to as a(n)__________.

Accepted Answer

A reproach is a verbal expression of disapproval or criticism. Hal is criticizing his coworker for potentially stealing his coffee mug. The other choices do not accurately describe Hal's statement.

Question 17

One study suggests that people who are in long-distance relationships can maintain relationships similar to those between people who are geographically close,as long as they are able to get together at least __________.

Accepted Answer

The study suggests that people in long-distance relationships can maintain relationships similar to those between people who are geographically close if they are able to get together at least once a week, indicating that frequent in-person contact is important for maintaining a strong relationship.

Question 18

What strategy is suggested to keep long-distance relationships strong?

Accepted Answer

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Question 19

According to communication researches Laura Stafford and James Reske,how did couples in long-distance premarital relationships compare to couples in proximal premarital relationships?

Accepted Answer

Stafford and Reske's research showed that couples in long-distance premarital relationships had a greater level of satisfaction and greater expectation for marriage compared to couples in proximal premarital relationships.

Question 20

People choose to be deceptive for a variety of reasons,and these reasons can be divided into two categories: __________.

Accepted Answer

Deception can be motivated by altruistic reasons, where the intent is to protect or benefit others, or by self-serving reasons, where the primary goal is to benefit oneself.

Quiz 10: Managing Relationship Challenges