Question 1

Harriet and Russ were in their late 40s.Neither had been married before, and they had always said that if they weren't married by age 50 they would marry each other.They came from similar backgrounds and enjoyed each other's company.Neither wanted to go through life unmarried, so marrying just seemed like a good idea.Which of the following types of love characterizes their relationship?

Accepted Answer

The type of love that characterizes Harriet and Russ's relationship is pragma, which is a practical and logical approach to love. They have agreed to marry each other based on the practicality of their situation - they are both unmarried and approaching their 50s. They come from similar backgrounds and enjoy each other's company, which also adds to the practicality of their decision to get married.

Question 2

When two people have a relationship based on feelings of warmth, understanding, and emotional connection, this is known as

Accepted Answer

Friendship-based intimacy is defined as a relationship based on feelings of warmth, understanding, and emotional connection, without the added component of physical or romantic attraction.

Question 3

What is an initiation norm?

Accepted Answer

An initiation norm refers to a scripted and ritualistic initial interaction that takes place when someone is welcomed into a particular group, organization or community. This can include things like handshakes, introductions, and other social rituals that are designed to establish a sense of belonging and community among participants. Unlike hazing rituals which can be harmful and abusive, initiation norms typically involve positive and welcoming interactions that help to create a sense of camaraderie and belonging among members.

Question 4

Our friendships involve "one-way assistance" at what age?

Accepted Answer

At ages 4-9, children often view friendships as one-way assistance, where they see friends as people who can help them meet their own needs.

Question 5

Tony has been secretly in love with Janessa for about two years.They are good friends, but Tony wants to move things to a more romantic level.When he talks to Janessa about his feelings, she very kindly but firmly tells him that she is only interested in a friendship with him.According to the text, Tony's situation could be described as

Accepted Answer

Tony's situation is an example of unrequited romantic interest, as he has feelings for Janessa but she does not share the same romantic feelings towards him.

Question 6

Barbara and George have been married for several years.George has learned that when Barbara wants to talk, he needs to eliminate distractions.So, when she comes into the bedroom after having attended the school board meeting and starts talking, he turns off the TV, even though it's a show he has been waiting to see, and devotes all his attention to her.Which strategy for escalating and maintaining a relationship is George employing?

Accepted Answer

George is listening actively by eliminating distractions and devoting all his attention to Barbara, and responding effectively by responding to her need to talk. This strategy is effective for maintaining a relationship by showing care and consideration for the other person's needs.

Question 7

Annie and Luke met last semester during their freshman orientation week.They date now and then but not exclusively.Both Annie and Luke enjoy each other's company, but neither has considered a committed relationship with the other.Their relationship is characteristic of which of the following types of love?

Accepted Answer

The relationship between Annie and Luke is characteristic of ludus love, which is a playful and casual type of love that does not involve exclusivity or commitment.

Question 8

What is a secret test?

Accepted Answer

A secret test is typically a behavior, action or situation that one partner uses to indirectly determine how the other partner feels or where their relationship stands. It is usually done without the knowledge of the other partner. This can include things like intentionally being distant or non-communicative, flirting with someone else to gauge jealousy, or purposely making plans without consulting the other person to see if they care.

Question 9

25-year-old Jennifer was in trouble again.She had been using drugs for about a year, which had resulted in her lying to her parents.All of her parents' friends told them to "cut her loose" and let her feel the consequences of her actions.However, her parents always welcomed her into their home and offered any assistance they could.Jennifer's father even picked her up from the police station once and didn't even seem angry on the ride home.The love Jennifer's parents feel for her would be considered

Accepted Answer

Agape love is a selfless and unconditional love that is often associated with parental love. It involves giving without expecting anything in return, forgiving mistakes, and being patient and understanding. This clearly describes the love Jennifer's parents have for her, as they continue to offer assistance and support despite her repeated mistakes and troubles.

Question 10

When Kate wasn't with Justin, she thought about him all the time.Though they had only known each other for two months, she wanted to spend every minute with him, and had even changed her major in college so she could take classes with him.If Justin failed to return a text message to her within 15 or 20 minutes, she would become anxious and fearful, but when she received an affirming message, she would quickly bounce back up to "cloud nine." Justin felt the same about Kate.Which of the following types of love characterizes their relationship?

Accepted Answer

Kate's behavior of obsessively thinking about Justin, changing her major to be with him, and experiencing extreme emotions of anxiety and joy based on his response are all indicators of mania, which is characterized by an intense and often unstable form of love. Both Kate and Justin share this type of love, as they feel the same way about each other.

Question 11

Will and Allison had been dating for some time and their college graduation was only two months away.Allison had wondered what would happen to their relationship after college-Will had a job prospect in faraway Oregon and he hadn't really talked over the implications of accepting the job with her.One evening, while out to dinner, Will broached the subject and declared that while he wasn't quite ready for engagement, he was moving that direction and would only take the job if such a future included Allison.Their talk is an example of a

Accepted Answer

A turning point is a significant event or discussion that changes the direction or dynamics of a relationship. In this case, Will's discussion about the future and his job prospect represents a pivotal moment in their relationship.

Question 12

Desiree and Jorg have been dating for several months.One night while watching TV, Desiree turns to Jorg and says, "Jorg, we've been dating for a while now.I'm wondering if we have a future together." Jorg responds, "I certainly hope so.I've been wondering myself if we might want to make our relationship more formal." Desiree says, "What did you have in mind?" Jorg says, "Well, since you are a freshman and I know how important your education is to your parents, I don't think an engagement is right just now.But I would like us to commit to dating each other exclusively." Desiree says, "That was kind of my thinking, too." What strategy for escalating or maintaining a relationship are they employing?

Accepted Answer

They are engaging in relationship talk, discussing their future as a couple and coming to an agreement about exclusivity.

Question 13

What are affinity-seeking strategies?

Accepted Answer

Affinity-seeking strategies refer to the various behaviors and actions we use to try to increase someone's attraction to us. These may include flattering the person, finding common interests, or showing interest in what the person has to say. The goal of affinity-seeking strategies is to develop and strengthen a relationship with someone.

Question 14

Which of the following reflects researcher Heidi Reeder's findings about romantic and physical attraction in cross-sex relationships as they endure over time?

Accepted Answer

Heidi Reeder's research suggests that romantic and physical/sexual attraction tend to diminish over time in cross-sex relationships.

Question 15

Which of the four factors identified as specifically affecting the development of intercultural friendships occurs as partners move from acquaintanceship to friendship, socializing within the specific cultural or intercultural context of one of the partners?

Accepted Answer

Targeted socializing occurs as partners move from acquaintanceship to friendship by intentionally seeking out social opportunities within one partner's cultural or intercultural context. This can lead to a deeper understanding and appreciation of the partner's culture, and can strengthen the bond between the friends. Cultural similarities and differences, as well as prior intercultural experiences, are factors that can influence the development of intercultural friendships, but they are not specifically related to the transition from acquaintanceship to friendship.

Question 16

Morgan wants to know more about her partner because she likes control in her life as well as predictability.In order to achieve these goals, she gathers information about her partner so she can better predict how he will act in given situations.She has been in this relationship for nearly a year, but feels the need to gain greater control and predictability.This is an example of which of the following?

Accepted Answer

Morgan's behavior and motivations align with the principles of uncertainty reduction theory, which suggests that people naturally seek information about others in order to reduce uncertainty and increase predictability in their relationships.

Question 17

Exploring values, negotiating new relationships with family members, discovering romantic and sexual opportunities, becoming more other-oriented, and seeking increased intimacy are all associated with

Accepted Answer

These are all typical experiences and challenges that are associated with adolescence, as young people navigate the transition from childhood to adulthood and start to establish their own identities and relationships.

Question 18

Janelle likes Allen.When he approaches her she turns to him, waves, and gives an animated smile.She is manifesting

Accepted Answer

Janelle's actions of turning to Allen, waving, and giving an animated smile are all approachability cues, signaling to Allen that she is open and receptive to his approach. This behavior can help facilitate social interactions and build relationships.

Question 19

Which friendships are most important for honing our skills for successful romantic relationships?

Accepted Answer

Young adult friendships are the most important for honing our skills for successful romantic relationships because we begin to establish our own identities and learn how to communicate and navigate intimate relationships during this time. Adolescence friendships may not be as significant as many younger teens are still discovering themselves and learning social skills. Childhood friendships can still have an impact on our later relationships, but typically focus on more basic social skills. Adult friendships may not be as influential on our romantic relationships as we have already established our identities and communication styles.

Question 20

"Friends with benefits" are characterized by which of the following?

Accepted Answer

"Friends with benefits" involves both sexual and nonsexual interactions between two individuals who are friends but have a casual sexual relationship without commitment or romantic involvement. While sex is a primary aspect of their relationship, it is not necessarily valued over their friendship.

Quiz 11: Interpersonal Relationships: Friendship and Romance