Question 1

A message is congruent when:

Accepted Answer

A message is congruent when the verbal and nonverbal behavior match. This means that the words being spoken and the body language being expressed are in alignment with one another. When there is a discrepancy between these two forms of communication, the message can come across as insincere, deceptive, or confusing. The other options - requesting change, respecting others' feelings/opinions, and reflecting balance of power - are important components of effective communication, but they do not necessarily make a message congruent.

Question 2

What percent of undergraduates will contract an STI during college?

Accepted Answer

According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), approximately 1 in 4 undergraduate students will contract a sexually transmitted infection (STI) during their college years. This underscores the importance of safe sex practices, regular testing, and open communication with sexual partners.

Question 3

Nancy was criticizing Mike for being chronically late but ended up also criticizing him for his alcohol abuse, cheating, and lying. Her attack on him is an example of:

Accepted Answer

Nancy's criticism started with one issue (Mike being chronically late) but she "branched" out to bring up other unrelated issues (alcohol abuse, cheating, and lying). This is known as branching.

Question 4

"Branching" refers to which of the following?

Accepted Answer

Branching refers to not staying focused on an issue, as it involves deviating from the main topic or problem at hand.

Question 5

What percent of undergraduates in lose-lose relationships expected their relationships to continue?

Accepted Answer

According to the given information, there is no mention of any undergraduates in lose-lose relationships expecting their relationships to continue, so the percentage is zero. Therefore, option A is the correct choice.

Question 6

What is the most frequent lie college students tell a new partner?

Accepted Answer

It is common for college students to feel pressure to appear more experienced or sexually active than they actually are. Therefore, they may lie about the number of previous partners they have had to impress a new partner.

Question 7

Which individual is more likely to keep a secret?

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Question 8

Suppose you and your partner are discussing where the two of you will go for Spring Break. You want to go to the beach; your partner wants to visit family. Your partner says to you: "You don't want to visit my family because you don't like my parents." Which of the following is an example of a reflective statement that you could make?

Accepted Answer

A reflective statement acknowledges the feelings or beliefs of the other person. Option D reflects back the partner’s feeling that you don't like their parents. Option A is defensive and not reflective, Option B is an outright lie, and Option C defers the conversation.

Question 9

In a couple's relationship, the woman is significantly more likely than the man to:

Accepted Answer

Research has shown that women are more likely than men to disclose their thoughts and feelings in a relationship and also expect their partners to do the same. This can lead to greater intimacy and relationship satisfaction. Therefore, both disclosing and expecting disclosure are more common for women in relationships.

Question 10

Which spouse is more likely to bring up a problem for discussion?

Accepted Answer

Research and studies on marital communication have consistently shown that wives are more likely than their husbands to bring up problems for discussion in heterosexual marriages. This is often attributed to socialization patterns where women are encouraged to be more communicative and emotionally expressive.

Question 11

College students are most likely to be involved what kind of relationships?

Accepted Answer

College students are often encouraged to engage in win-win relationships, where both parties benefit, as these are seen as healthy and mutually supportive.

Question 12

Regarding forgiveness, your text emphasizes that:

Accepted Answer

The text emphasizes the importance of being self-reflective and recognizing that everyone hurts others and needs forgiveness in order to cultivate forgiveness in oneself. The other options may also be beneficial, but they are not the main emphasis of the text.

Question 13

What should you say when your partner tells you something you do upsets him/her?

Accepted Answer

Acknowledging and thanking your partner for sharing their feelings is an important aspect of maintaining healthy communication in a relationship. This helps to reinforce the idea that it is safe and acceptable to express oneself openly in the relationship. The other options (A, B, and D) are not productive ways to respond to your partner's feedback and can further damage the relationship.

Question 14

All of the following are ways of exercising power in a relationship except:

Accepted Answer

Gift giving is not typically considered a way of exercising power in a relationship. Withdrawal, blackmail, and physical abuse are all examples of power dynamics in a relationship.

Question 15

A win-win solution:

Accepted Answer

A win-win solution is when both parties involved in a conflict feel satisfied with the resolution. This means that the solution is not just good for one person or party, but for both. It's a positive outcome for everyone, which is why it's called a win-win situation.

Question 16

"Do you love me?" is an example of:

Accepted Answer

This is a closed-ended question because it only allows for a yes/no response and doesn't encourage further elaboration or discussion.

Question 17

"Fighting fair" means which of the following?

Accepted Answer

Fighting fair means engaging in a disagreement or argument without hurting the partner or damaging the relationship after the disagreement. It involves expressing oneself without attacking or belittling the other person and being willing to compromise and find a mutually beneficial solution. It is important to focus on the issue and not the person, communicate respectfully, and take responsibility for our own behavior and feelings.

Question 18

The technique of brainstorming involves:

Accepted Answer

Brainstorming involves generating as many ideas as possible without evaluating or criticizing them. This allows for a free flow of creativity and encourages participants to think outside the box.

Question 19

Howard Markman and his colleagues have been studying 150 couples at yearly intervals to determine those factors most responsible for marital success. They found that
____ is the single biggest predictor of marital success over time.

Accepted Answer

Howard Markman and his colleagues found that communication skills/constructive arguing is the single biggest predictor of marital success over time. This means that couples who are able to effectively communicate and resolve conflicts in a positive manner have a higher likelihood of having a successful marriage. Other factors such as family background, religious faith, and having few differences may also play a role, but communication skills are the most important.

Question 20

Connie wanted her husband Phil to take a second job so they could save for a new car. When Phil found a second job, Connie complained that Phil was not spending enough time with the family. The conflict that resulted best illustrates which of the following sources of conflict?

Accepted Answer

The answer of Connie wanted her husband Phil to take...

Quiz 4: Communication