At a party, your best friend made a fun of something you did. You were hurt by what your friend said. Which of the following behaviors would reflect a relationship-oriented approach to the conflict?
A) invite him or her to coffee and bring it up in conversation
B) say nothing
C) wait for the best opportunity to make a joke at your friend's expense
D) tell your friend you don't want to be friends anymore

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A relationship-oriented approach focuses on preserving the relationship and improving communication. By inviting your friend to coffee and bringing up the issue in conversation, you can express how their comment hurt you and work together to find a solution that strengthens your friendship. Saying nothing (B) does not address the issue, while making a joke at your friend's expense (C) further damages the relationship. Telling your friend you don't want to be friends anymore (D) is an extreme and unnecessary response.

At a Party, Your Best Friend Made a Fun of Something