Question 1

The first relationships people form outside their families are
A)friendships.
B)professional relationships.
C)romantic relationships.
D)dependent relationships.

Accepted Answer

Friendships are typically the first relationships people form outside of their families, usually beginning in childhood or adolescence through school, hobbies, or sports. Professional relationships and dependent relationships (such as those with caregivers or mentors) may come later in life, and romantic relationships usually develop during the teenage years or early adulthood.

Question 2

______________ includes the activities,abilities,and characteristics that our culture has deemed appropriate for us based on whether we are male or female.
A)Gender identity
B)Sexual identity
C)Sexual orientation
D)Gender role

Accepted Answer

Gender role refers to the activities, abilities, and characteristics that our culture has deemed appropriate for us based on whether we are male or female. Gender identity refers to an individual's personal sense of being male, female, or somewhere in between. Sexual identity refers to an individual's emotional and physical attraction to others, while sexual orientation refers to an individual's sexual attraction to others based on their gender.

Question 3

Which of the following is NOT a characteristic of commitment?
A)responsibility
B)passion
C)reliability
D)faithfulness

Accepted Answer

Passion, while often associated with commitment, is not a definitive characteristic of it. Commitment, on the other hand, involves responsibility, reliability, and faithfulness.

Question 4

Jealousy is
A)proof that love exists.
B)a harmless emotion.
C)a measure of insecurity.
D)unrelated to self-esteem.

Accepted Answer

Jealousy is often a measure of insecurity, indicating a fear of losing someone or something to a perceived rival. It is not necessarily proof of love or a harmless emotion, and can be related to self-esteem issues.

Question 5

A common issue that can hurt a relationship is expecting
A)your partner to change.
B)that your partner loves you.
C)physical and emotional intimacy.
D)that you can trust your partner.

Accepted Answer

Expecting your partner to change can create frustration and disappointment, and can lead to resentment and conflict in the relationship. It's important to accept your partner for who they are and work together to build a healthy and fulfilling relationship based on mutual respect and understanding.

Question 6

Mindfulness can be cultivated by
A)speeding up our thought process.
B)planning and thinking ahead.
C)concentrating on multiple tasks.
D)maximizing awareness of our mind's operation.

Accepted Answer

Mindfulness is about being fully aware and present in the moment. By maximizing awareness of our mind's operation, we are able to pay attention to our thoughts, feelings, and physical sensations without judgment or distraction. This allows us to better understand ourselves and the world around us, and can lead to greater calm, clarity, and well-being. Speeding up our thought process, planning and thinking ahead, and concentrating on multiple tasks can actually hinder mindfulness by taking us out of the present moment and increasing stress and anxiety.

Question 7

_____________ is an idealized or obsessive attraction toward another person.
A)Infatuation
B)Passion
C)Intimacy
D)Commitment

Accepted Answer

Infatuation is the idealized or obsessive attraction toward another person. Passion refers to intense emotions experienced in a relationship, but it may not necessarily be idealized or obsessive. Intimacy and commitment are other components of a long-term relationship, but they do not necessarily involve infatuation.

Question 8

Real friends
A)can be tense and unhappy with each other.
B)do not share each other's difficulties.
C)do not have to show respect for each other.
D)include passion in their relationship.

Accepted Answer

Real friends can have disagreements and conflicts that lead to tension and unhappiness in their relationship. However, they work through these issues and maintain their friendship.

Answer: D 
 Passion can come in many forms in a friendship, such as a shared interest or a genuine love and care for each other. It is not a necessary component of all friendships, but it can enhance the relationship.

Question 9

_______________ is NOT a sign of an unhealthy relationship.
A)Physical or emotional abuse
B)Conflict
C)Codependency
D)Communicative withdrawal

Accepted Answer

Conflict is a normal and healthy part of any relationship. It allows individuals to express their opinions and work towards a resolution. However, it is important to manage conflicts effectively to prevent them from becoming unhealthy. Physical or emotional abuse, codependency, and communicative withdrawal are all signs of an unhealthy relationship.

Question 10

Intimate partnerships differ from friendships in that intimate partnerships
A)do not require exclusiveness.
B)are more accepting and less critical.
C)are more stable and enduring over time.
D)include the presence of sexual desire.

Accepted Answer

Intimate partnerships involve the presence of sexual desire and activity, which is not a requirement for friendships. Option A is incorrect as exclusivity is often a key aspect of intimate partnerships. Option B is incorrect as intimate partnerships often involve criticism and acceptance similar to that in friendships. Option C may be true in some cases, but not necessarily in all cases as both intimate partnerships and friendships may vary in their stability and duration over time.

Question 11

Which of the following has been part of the change in attitudes and practices toward sex among Americans over the last few decades?
A)Most people no longer equate sex with love and commitment.
B)Americans have largely ceased to worry about the relationship between traditional norms and values and sex.
C)More Americans consider marriage to be the best arrangement for permissible sex.
D)Social norms are less of a determinant for those making decisions about sex.

Accepted Answer

One of the key changes in attitudes and practices toward sex among Americans over the last few decades has been the decreasing influence of social norms. Today, individuals are more likely to make decisions about sex based on their own personal values and desires, rather than societal expectations. This has contributed to greater diversity in sexual practices and attitudes, as people are freer to express themselves and explore their sexuality in a way that feels authentic to them. Choices A, B, and C are not accurate statements about changes in attitudes and practices toward sex among Americans.

Question 12

Of the following,which would be the longest-lasting element of successful love?
A)euphoria.
B)preoccupation with the loved one.
C)commitment.
D)idealization of the loved one.

Accepted Answer

Euphoria and preoccupation with the loved one are typically temporary and may fade over time. Idealization of the loved one may also fade once the realities and imperfections of the relationship become apparent. Commitment, however, is a long-term aspect of successful love and involves a dedication and willingness to work through challenges and persevere in the relationship.

Question 13

Which of the following is a recommended use of the period immediately following a breakup?
A)avoid making new friendships
B)reconnect with neglected acquaintances
C)focusing on helping others
D)engage in casual dating without investing in serious commitment

Accepted Answer

It is recommended to reconnect with neglected acquaintances as it can provide a support network and distract from the pain of the breakup. Avoiding making new friendships or engaging in casual dating without investing in serious commitment can potentially lead to further emotional turmoil. Focusing on helping others can be a positive outlet, but it is important to also focus on self-care during this time.

Question 14

Characteristics of friendships include all of the following EXCEPT
A)respect.
B)trust.
C)exclusivity.
D)loyalty.

Accepted Answer

Exclusivity is not necessarily a characteristic of friendships, as people can have multiple friends or be part of a group of friends. Respect, trust, and loyalty are commonly considered important qualities in friendships.

Question 15

Emotional intelligence includes
A)responding impulsively to feelings.
B)responding reactively to feelings.
C)recognizing feelings as they occur.
D)rejecting all emotional support.

Accepted Answer

Emotional intelligence involves the ability to recognize and understand one's own emotions as well as the emotions of others. Recognizing feelings as they occur is a key component of emotional intelligence. Options A and B involve impulsive and reactive responses, which are not indicative of emotional intelligence. Option D involves rejecting emotional support, which would hinder the development of emotional intelligence.

Question 16

Reciprocity refers to
A)give-and-take between friends.
B)mutual respect.
C)over-dependence.
D)sexual desire.

Accepted Answer

Reciprocity is the practice of exchanging things with others for mutual benefit. In the context of interpersonal relationships, reciprocity often refers to a give-and-take between friends or partners, where both parties contribute to the relationship and receive benefits in return.

Question 17

The element that is LEAST characteristic of enduring love relationships is
A)a pursuit of common goals.
B)closeness to each other.
C)passion and intensity.
D)the promise of a shared future.

Accepted Answer

While passion and intensity can be present in enduring relationships, they are not a defining or necessary characteristic. In fact, many enduring relationships may have less passion and intensity over time but still remain strong due to other factors such as commitment, respect, and shared values. Therefore, option C is the least characteristic of enduring relationships.

Question 18

The roots of our identity and sense of self are found in our
A)childhood.
B)peer group.
C)profession.
D)community.

Accepted Answer

Childhood is the time when we form our first relationships and start to develop an understanding of ourselves and the world around us. Our experiences during this time have a significant impact on our identity and sense of self.

Answer: D 
 Our sense of identity is shaped by the relationships that we form with others, and our community is often one of the most important sources of support and validation for us. Being part of a community can also give us a sense of belonging and purpose, which is closely tied to our sense of self.

Question 19

Anxious/avoidant relationships with parents may produce children who,when they reach adulthood,
A)find it easy to establish relationships.
B)are satisfied living a solitary lifestyle.
C)tend to stay married to the same person for a lifetime.
D)are inclined to run from relationships.

Accepted Answer

Anxious/avoidant relationships with parents can lead to children developing a fear of intimacy and attachment, which makes them avoid getting too close to others or running away from relationships altogether. Therefore, they are more inclined to run from relationships instead of finding it easy to establish or maintain them.

Question 20

Friendships usually include all of the following characteristics EXCEPT
A)companionship.
B)mutuality.
C)reciprocity.
D)sexual passion.

Accepted Answer

Friendships do not typically include sexual passion as it goes beyond the boundaries of platonic relationships.

Quiz 4: Intimate Relationships and Communication

The first relationships people form outside their families are

______________ includes the activities,abilities,and characteristics that our culture has deemed appropriate for us based on whether we are male or female.

Which of the following is NOT a characteristic of commitment?

Jealousy is

A common issue that can hurt a relationship is expecting

Mindfulness can be cultivated by

_____________ is an idealized or obsessive attraction toward another person.

Real friends

_______________ is NOT a sign of an unhealthy relationship.

Intimate partnerships differ from friendships in that intimate partnerships

Which of the following has been part of the change in attitudes and practices toward sex among Americans over the last few decades?

Of the following,which would be the longest-lasting element of successful love?

Which of the following is a recommended use of the period immediately following a breakup?

Characteristics of friendships include all of the following EXCEPT

Emotional intelligence includes

Reciprocity refers to

The element that is LEAST characteristic of enduring love relationships is

The roots of our identity and sense of self are found in our

Anxious/avoidant relationships with parents may produce children who,when they reach adulthood,

Friendships usually include all of the following characteristics EXCEPT